bejeweled Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 When my boyfriend and I first met, he was still talking to his ex-girlfriend. He and his ex broke up in August but ended up sleeping together again in december. After that, they had maintained communication and he even asked if she was willing to try their relationship again but she said she wanted to date other people so they didn't get back together. But they continued to talk and express feelings for each other up until he met me, which was about 4 months after they'd slept together in December. She continued to contact even after he told her he was seeing someone else. Then for the first 4 months my boyfriend and I were together she would text and called him constantly even though he didn't respond and when he did respond he would answer with leave me alone. Finally I got so fed up I threatened to leave him if he didn't make it stop. The incessant contact from the ex stopped for a couple weeks and then started up again. At this point I told him to change his phone number. Since he's changed his phone number she hasn't contacted him since. However, she has tried to email him a couple times. Although he's made such an effort to get her out of his life, I still find myself obsessing over her. I made him delete all of his pictures with her on facebook or any other online accounts. Now I want to him to delete his person collection of pictures from when they were together. Since we've been together he's told me that he found out that she slept with tons of guys, and was just a terrible person and if he could, he would erase her from his life altogether. So I figure, if he really wants to erase her completely, he should have no problem getting rid of every trace of her including personal pictures, letters, anything! Am I going to far? I can't get her out of my head. It's really frustrating because she's really unattractive, crazy, and a slut. I know I'm a way better person and better looking, but I still can't seem to get her out of me head. What do I do? Why is this even happening? I know I'm frustrating him whenever I bring her up and he's really been very supportive of the situation. How can I stop myself from perpetuating the issue? I don't want to think about her and I know I'm the one keeping her alive to him by bringing her up over and over again, but I really don't know how to stop. Help anyone?
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