New Again Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 Sounds like its going to be a disaster in the making. Do you think your parents will not give him a chance when hes 31 and athiest, no matter how nice he is to them? Do you think they will tell you to break it off? Will you listen to them? You might wanna hold this off.... ...which would only be prolonging the inevitable if that were to be the case. And in the meantime she gets her parents, who she lives with, stressing her out with hints and requests and demands and insinuations about why they can't meet him (most likely they'll blame it on him and not her).
Author aerogurl87 Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 Sounds like its going to be a disaster in the making. Do you think your parents will not give him a chance when hes 31 and athiest, no matter how nice he is to them? Do you think they will tell you to break it off? Will you listen to them? You might wanna hold this off.... My dad I think would like him (despite his age, although he'd have some reservations at first I'm sure) and he's not the one bothering me about meeting him, it's my mom. And if they tell me to break things off with him no I won't listen to them, it's not like they are the ones dating him, I am. Although I'm sure my mom might try her hardest to convince me to do so. ...which would only be prolonging the inevitable if that were to be the case. And in the meantime she gets her parents, who she lives with, stressing her out with hints and requests and demands and insinuations about why they can't meet him (most likely they'll blame it on him and not her). New Again you make a valid point with this. I guess I will talk to him about it tonight or tomorrow. Thanks everyone for your advice.
boogieboy Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 And if they tell me to break things off with him no I won't listen to them, it's not like they are the ones dating him, I am. Youre my kinda gurl AG.
Author aerogurl87 Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 Youre my kinda gurl AG. Lol, thanks boogieboy. Well I talked to him and he said he'll meet my parents if it will help them trust me being around him more. Although he doubts it will be as simple as him stopping by and introducing himself real quick (and so do I). So thanks everyone.
fatamus Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 aerogurl87, sounds like your mother wont like him at all due to the religion/age thing. Sooner or later he will get fed up with negativity from her and it might be a problem. Girls and their mothers is a delicate topic, whatever the mother wants the girl end up doing more often than not.
Author aerogurl87 Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 aerogurl87, sounds like your mother wont like him at all due to the religion/age thing. Sooner or later he will get fed up with negativity from her and it might be a problem. Girls and their mothers is a delicate topic, whatever the mother wants the girl end up doing more often than not. Well fatamus that is a good assessment if only it were true. My mother and I don't really have that close mother-daughter bond most women have with their mothers due to my mom's hateful biases against anyone she deems herself superior to (although I think this thought of superiority is subconscious, it still manages to manifest itself). So whether she likes him or not has no bearing on whether or not I'll stay with him. Now that I think about it she hated my first real serious boyfriend and I ended up staying with him for a little over a year until he did something dumb that led to me having to end things.
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