1fastgt Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 (edited) hey, i'm new to the site and was wondering if anyone had some input on my situation that i've been having. So me and my gf broke up about a month ago and its been alright since... I did miss her for a little while but i learned life goes on. So me and my buddy went out to the bar one night and we were sitting there drinking and having a good time talking, when all of a sudden my high school crush walks in and grabs a seat across from us. I never thought anything of it untill she kept making eyecontact with me. At this point i kinda new i was going to get into some trouble and since i've had a few in me i'm getting pretty confident to go up and talk to her, just to see how shes been doing. We were really good friends in highschool and the guys she use to date were very popular and there parents were rich. I was just the guy she use to hang around with before her boyfriend came to pick her up in his corvette. All i was really knowen for in highschool was being able to work on cars and playing bass in a band. I went up to her and we got talking and befor i knew it i was dancing with her. I really don't know how to dance and i think she kinda found that out fast but i got a chance to tell her how i felt back when we were in school and how i wanted to date her. She smiled and then said why didn't you tell me how you felt, thats when all of a sudden we started to kiss. i couldn't believe what was happening. I then said i didn't want to ruin our friendship, she just smiled and held my hand. We went outside for a smoke and started talking again. I was suppose to get her number but since i lost my cell i gave her mine. We made plans to go for a test drive in the truck i just bought and she said she would call me during the week but never did. She added me on face book and i sent her a private message saying if she still wanted to go out for a test drive on the day that we planned on, her reply was "i'm kinda busy maybe another time"? does this mean shes not interested or is it just a bad time? should i continue talking to her and try to build on something or should i just move on. She broke up with her boyfriend at the same time i broke up with my gf. thanks for any input, 1fastgt Edited October 4, 2009 by 1fastgt
loveslife Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 Awww, it does kind of sound like she's giving you the brush-off. She probably got caught up in the heat of the moment the other day seeing you but then back to reality she was still reeling about her ex. Give her some space now. If you still feel like it and aren't seeing anyone try her again in a few months. Unless she's contacted you by then. Sometimes people go through ups and downs. This is not a reflection on your or her feelings for you necessarily.
callingyouuu Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 Awww, it does kind of sound like she's giving you the brush-off. She probably got caught up in the heat of the moment the other day seeing you but then back to reality she was still reeling about her ex. Give her some space now. If you still feel like it and aren't seeing anyone try her again in a few months. Unless she's contacted you by then. Sometimes people go through ups and downs. I completely agree. Move on for now. She has your number, so she can call you if she needs to. Also, as a side note to the thread title, there are no leagues. No one can be out of your league unless you allow them to become that way. =)
Author 1fastgt Posted October 4, 2009 Author Posted October 4, 2009 Thanks for the advice, i will give her space and if she ever wants to she can call me. I thought she was brushing me off, but i wasn't sure... thanks, 1fastgt
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