Jump to content

Made a bad first impression last week with girl...how to fix it?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

Well i was at a party last week, and when I was talking with the girl I felt like we had a good conversation, not much flirting, but it lasted for awhile and I could tell she was interested. We were both tipsy but the only problem was from what I can remember I didnt have great eye contact with her. I was smiling alot, but its hard for me to hold eye contact for more than 5 seconds. So at tonites party if I go up with more confidence, and hold eye contact longer, will that make her more flirtacious? anything else I can do? thanks

Posted

Eye contact is very important. If you find yourself uncomfortable just examine the eye from a dispassionate angle, like the colour or the shape. Then tease her a bit, get some light body contact in (hands, arms etc) elicit and mirror values, but disagree about a few things to show you aren't a supplicant, be aware of testing where she may pretend to be offended to see if you will back down or apologise over nothing, assume the sale, isolate, a little more charming convo and then pull her towards you and kiss. If she isn't interested, next.

×
×
  • Create New...