Ryuk Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 Hi all. April 20, 2008 I met the most wonderful woman in the world on an MMORPG, an online game called Final Fantasy XI. At the time she was with her boyfriend of 5 years, and they were having problems. Me and this girl talked for a month before she broke up with her boyfriend, and then 3 days after, we started dating. I lived in GA and she lived in IL, almost 700 miles away. After a few months she decided to visit me. She stayed for a while, and wanted to move to GA to be with me but her mom didn't let her. Eventually we parted, wanting to be with each other so badly, but we couldn't. A few weeks later, she came back, and we got an apartment here in GA. At the time I was 15, and she was 21. There was much controversy, but that wasn't the problem. In the end, we moved to IL together to be with each other. I lived there for 9 months, and there were some complications and we had to separate. My question is, how do I get over someone who has meant so much to me? She was my first love, my only love. I'll forever love her. How can I get over her and live my life without thinking about wanting to be with her?
JaggedRoad Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 You'll be starting college soon. You'll learn to forget her when you start college.
Author Ryuk Posted October 3, 2009 Author Posted October 3, 2009 But there are other problems. I'm afraid to date anyone I like because I'm scared it'll remind me of her. I recently told her I can't talk to her because I still feel like she's my girlfriend, and she just wants to be friends. I'm just scared to love again because it'll remind me of her. :x
SierraMarie Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 It's hard but you'll get it eventually. The best thing now is to stop talking to her and accept the fact the fact that it's over. That is the only way you will begin to heal. The longer you draw it out, the longer your pain will be.
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