Eric8384 Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Hey guys I'm in a very tough situation and need some advice please. Last October of 2008 my best friend had a serious stroke and the doctors didn't know if he was going to survive or not. I had a hard time dealing with this, and a coworker (female) saw this and her and I became close. She was in a relationship but was not happy at the time, we began going out together, talking on the phone and just enjoying each other's company...she really helped a lot. She has cheated on her boyfriend before, I believe twice before (they've been together for 5 years and their families are very close). We both fell in love with one another and she was going to break up with her boyfriend but something stopped her (his money). Anyways, they lived separately at this time and we were still seeing each other, then she decided to move in with him in March. I took this really bad and it's bad enough I had to work with her every day. We continued to talk (but not hang out as much), she would send me text messages saying how she loves me and misses hanging out etc etc. I currently now have a new job bc i'm changing careers, and we had continued to be "friends" with feelings toward one another but I just found out through a mutual friend that she just got engaged. I'm heart broken, I know I shouldn't be but I can't help it. She hasn't called me or texted me recently. Just a few weeks ago she told me she wished we were together sometimes...I'm very depressed but at the same time I just think to myself just TRY to move on. I miss her but I just don't know what to do...any advice/suggestions? Thanks for taking the time to read this.
ecm Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Being hurt sucks. People that are dishonest suck. I don't have any experience in this situation, so I'm afraid I'm not much help, but I believe there is a whole section devoted to being "the other" man/woman. Maybe check out some of those posts/ threads? I hope it helps xo
Author Eric8384 Posted October 3, 2009 Author Posted October 3, 2009 Thanks ecm...i'll have to check that out. I also want to add that her boyfriend and her have been together for 5 years and their families are best friends. Any advice would be appreciated...I'm really depressed and I'm not sure what to do
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