bede86 Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Hey so heres what happened...I'm involved in Student politics at my university, me and the political party im in joined a few others and we are trying to win the election for controll of the union....now a few weeks ago i went to my campaign managers place to help her with a few things...we had some wine and ended up sleeping together...Now I feel terrible because there is this guy who really likes her and apparantly they agreed to start dating after the election next week....so after learning this we decided not to tell him...i didnt know any of this at the time....anyways she got drunk at a campaign party last tuesday and told him...now he was still civil with me afterwoulds and even shook my hand goodbye etc. But I feel like ****, hes such a nice guy and hes great to talk to and I really woulda liked to be friends with him. Hes been alright with me but a little distant online and stuff, a close friend of hers told me hes not angry at me and realises i wasnt to know etc....But still should i contact him? i wanna jus say how sorry i am and if i had known it wouldnt have happened.
Peaceful Guy Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 they agreed to start dating after the election next week.... ug.. what incredible passion!! it sounds like you did them a favor. if you end up being friends with the guy thats cool but dont wallow in shared pity for him over the situation. what about you dating this girl?.. it sounds like you two hit it off.. but then,, the whole decided not to tell him thing is weird,, the fact that she got drunk and told him screams of drama. leave this one alone,, youre too nice for this crap and you need to avoid that instinct to get pulled into something that at this point cant really turn out healthy.. sorry bud,, chin up, move forward
Ronni_W Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 But still should i contact him? i wanna jus say how sorry i am and if i had known it wouldnt have happened. Good lawd, no, do not contact him! Just leave it, as far as he is concerned. Bringing it up again will only make the situation BIGGER than it really is. If you absolutely feel it necessary, do your confession and penance someplace else, in some other manner. Put your self in his place: You're trying to be 'big', understanding, take the high road, etc.; you got your own thoughts and feelings under control. And along comes some guy and brings it all back into your conscious awareness AGAIN! Ack! Don't do it to him. Would be my suggestion. And forgive yourself, of course
Author bede86 Posted October 4, 2009 Author Posted October 4, 2009 (edited) it gets better...her ex boyfriend she broke up with 6 weeks ago is my faction leader (my boss basically) and there is another guy after her who would kick the crap outa me or have the crap kicked outa me if he finds out....im like the democrats after the 2004 election... "Bush" has caused me to be up 'Sh*t creek' without a paddle Edited October 4, 2009 by bede86 didnt make sense before :P
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