bluehighway Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 ok i really need some help here. me and my exboyfriend are both 22 and weve been on and off for the past year. we broke up 2 months ago and he started dating this new girl and then she left him. so we started talking again as friends but then he started to pull away cause he said hes not ready to have feelings again for me yet. so we stopped talking and hanging out so much and we have all of the same friends so i just started hanging out with his friends when he wasnt around and all of that. then he started talking to this 18 year old girl and now their "together" and he told me last night that we cant talk while hes with another girl. we can only talk while hes single cause he doesnt want to have feelings for me while hes with another girl. everyones telling me this is rebound and hes trying to just have fun with no commitment cause hes not into anything serious right now. he just trying to have a good time and i should be happy hes not using me for rebound cause when he is ready for something serious hes gonna come back towards me for it and not another girl. and him being w/this 18 year old is him just working out his feelings from the last girl and hes not ready for anythin real yet. what should i think and what should i do?
Lamak Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 All I see is drama. First thing you have to do is stop listening to any tidbit about his life. You also have to stay away from these mutual friends, because it'll make you gravitate towards your ex. You shouldn't focus on him, because he's gone now. You shouldn't do anything except move with your life. Make new friends and get new hobbies etc etc.
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