acarls20 Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Ok, so I'm still having an open relationship with this guy I met awhile ago. However, things are often confusing with him. He obviously doesn't just see me for sex. Most the time we hang out platonically. I'm usually the one calling for booty. When I decide to act uninterested, like when we went to Karaoke with some of his friends, I asked the guy next to me if he was going to sing. He said he usually doesn't and I said I'd sing with him. Then the guy I'm seeing said well, I'll do any duet with you. When I continued to talk to other people he changed seats to sit next to me. He even discussed if we should dress up together for Halloween. The next day I try to bring up the costume thing again and he brushes it off. I attempted to get out of his car recently without a good night kiss. As I was getting out he raised his hand to his face and was like "you don't want none of this. I'm sick "(he was). It was just kind of weird for him to mention it when I didn't even attempt to kiss him. He is making it seem that the only way I can keep his interest is by acting uninterested. I'm fine with just dating openly or being friends with benefits but his signals are frustrating me. Should I bring it up with him?
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