hardlover Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Is it possible to forgive a stalker that you had an intimate relationship with?
bayouboi Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Forgive them in your own heart and mind, sure...it will help you sleep easy. Forgive them to their face? Why would you want to open that door/contact again now that they've shown the dangerous things they are capable of? If you are the stalker, read this as if you are the victim and get a good idea of the fear going through their mind.
Author hardlover Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 So it ultimately boils down to the fact that they know what the ex stalker is capable of and which is the reason they will never give them another chance.THe ex stalker has shown his true face....
bayouboi Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Well, I can't tell you exactly what goes through the mind of a victim as I've never been stalked. My perspective is that of someone who would want to protect a victim from someone who is abusive. I would imagine after being stalked, they would be in a state of constant fear until the predator was 100% out of their life or unless they had the feeling that they could handle the situation in a way that would protect themselves. If you are the stalker, I'd forget about your victim, then try and get some counseling to figure out why you did what you did and try and fix yourself. Move on with your life once you've fixed yourself and treat the next person with better care.
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