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Trying to understand being called controlling.


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Hey Folks,

 

I have been divorced for almost a year and have been dating a woman 9 years younger than me. She came onto me *we work together*. After 5 months of talking every day and seeing each other at least once a week she seemed to pull back.

 

Some background on the girl, she seems kinda emotional repressed, like she doesnt express her feeling much. She even admited i was not the first man to tell her this. She was super sweet and the kinda girl that would do anything for her friends.

 

Anyways tonight she told me she was crazy about me at first however i seemed to be too controlling and that if we continued to date she would end up getting frustrated and angry with me.

 

This really concerns me that she thought of me as controlling. I stayed pretty confused during our 5 month stint on things and i think i may have gotten a little upset with her a few times in regards to how much we get to see each other. I wanted to see each other more often then once a week for a few hours. 3 days of the week i have my son so it is party my issue.

 

Can a woman define a controlling man or better yet give examples?

Again it is for the best but i would like to better understand the whole controlling thing. If i am controlling how do i stop? It is not something i really want to be.:o:sick:

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