matt155 Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 so i had kind of a situation a couple days ago with this girl i was seeing. she flaked out on me and i decided to give her a piece of my mind. she told me that she thinks its best if we dont talk and i said "i do too". now i think...i think...she still has feelings for me. But i dont want to act desperate and text her or call her or anything. and i know its best if i move on. but this question is just in general...do girls find you more attractive if you dont talk to them and ignore them?
D-Lish Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 It only works if you haven't already burned bridges. You might have already burned the bridge on this one. In the first stages of dating- major drama can ruin things beyond repair. Having a strong reaction too early on can kill feelings. If she was on the fence about how she felt about you- your outburst could ver well have pushed her in the other direction. No matter what- don't pursue her. If she reaches out to you, start back slowly- if she doesn't- consider it over. If she doesn't reach out to you after what happened, just let it go.
You'reasian Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 so i had kind of a situation a couple days ago with this girl i was seeing. she flaked out on me and i decided to give her a piece of my mind. she told me that she thinks its best if we dont talk and i said "i do too". now i think...i think...she still has feelings for me. But i dont want to act desperate and text her or call her or anything. and i know its best if i move on. but this question is just in general...do girls find you more attractive if you dont talk to them and ignore them? They tend to - but don't talk to her, because you want her to be attracted to you. Don't talk to her, because you'd rather talk to someone whose not a flake
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