Scarlett513 Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 I met him at an event over the weekend before last - we had a nice night, made out but I was upfront with him from the get go that I wasn't going to sleep with him. He was a gentleman, I thought we really hit it off, and he made noises about seeing me again. We texted for a few days and then he basically told me he was very busy with work that week so he didn't think that getting together that week was the best. I said, ok, if you want then let me know when things calm down. He said he would, but I didn't hear from him for a week so I figured I was being blown off. Then the other night I get a text from him telling me that he wants me to know he's not blowing me off, things are just busy, and he wants to try to get together. Again, I say ok, let me know when's good for you and we'll try to work something out. He responds "ok sounds good." Huh? Wouldn't the appropriate response be to suggest a day/time? What is this guy's deal? I feel like I'm getting blown off (again) but why would he even bother telling me he wasn't blowing me off if he was just going to blow me off?
gopher Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 If he's texting you first....than he's either interested or keeping you on the back burner just in case. If you're texting and he's responding, he's blowing you off, but doesn't want to come right out and say it.
bean1 Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Neither. You are not blown off and he is not busy. He is a fisherman - he seems to want to keep you dangling on a line while waiting for something else to come along. Remember, a man who is really interested in a woman will always make time for her. Always. Believe in that and you will save a lot of time and heartache.
Author Scarlett513 Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 He's texting me first, which is why I'm so confused lol. Maybe it is the backburner thing, I hadn't thought of that. Thanks!
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