CARL45 Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 I can't for the life communicate to a women that I find then attractive!! I just can't do it! I have been surprised by what I am able to do, but still I find myself feeling that I am a creep if I go to a women and say I think she's "cute". I talk to a friend who is a therapist and he says it has mainly do with my parents not really instilling in me a sense of self confidence. I kind of agree. I have been having conversations with women I see on the bus and train, something I would have never done in the pass, but it is more easier for me to do now. I mine hell I tell women how attractive their sunglasses's are on them and I normally get a thank you or a shocked thank you! But for the life of me I can not tell then their attractive. I think its myself mainly and the fact that the social conditioning makes me a "nice guy" or chump as some would call it. The way the "Nice guy" does not convey his feelings hides and motives. All I need is some help!
boogieboy Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Its because if you are talking to them, they know you think they are attractive, so you dont have to verbalize it more than once. You only have to show how interesting you are, and use that to attract them to you.
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