BCCA Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Or maybe I saw through her act. Her dad left her when she was just a kid, and she's drawn to men that don't care like a magnet. Who gives a crap if she likes guys that punch her? If thats not you, NEXT! Wasting 5 seconds worrying about the 'why' is 5 seconds too long. I dont bother anymore, although I know its tempting. That really is quite possible. Its equally, if not moreso, possible that shes just not interested. Also, its 100% possible youll never know for sure, so why worry? The fact that it can cause problems does not mean that HKizzle knows 100% certain that it was what caused this problem, and thats the issue. Its pointless to ponder rejections, shrug them off and get back out there. I think it's quite arrogant to assume that just because someone rejected you means there is something wrong with them. Agreed, but very common here.
alphamale Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Anyway, what's wrong with some women, are they really that attracted to the confidence in guys that don't give a ****, or are they in reality just afraid of falling in love? no, they just basically enjoy being treated like dirt. let me guess, they're probably in their 20s
hoping2heal Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 No, I am not a misogynist. I hate A woman, not women. I really like this girl, and I'm just curious why some girls will gravitate to men that will obviously break their hearts. Hell I even danced with her friend that's hotter than she is, and a couple of other girls but no, she doesn't give a ****. She goes and hangs out again with ANOTHER group of players. The only consolatio prize is I got a pic of me and Bob Sapp flexing our biceps on the dance floor because he's in HK for a fight. Bob Sapp is a friggin monster, I love him too (in another way). Anyway, what's wrong with some women, are they really that attracted to the confidence in guys that don't give a ****, or are they in reality just afraid of falling in love? Women who hang out with men who will obviously break their hearts are not very mature or intelligent. You wouldn't stick your hand on a hot burner right? No, because you know that it would hurt very badly and to put your hand on there knowing better, would make you seem like a dunce, yes? No matter how much you like(d) this woman, she would get on your nerves in the long run with such little brains running in action.
eiithan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 It's difficult to accept a rejection for anyone but at one point it seems we just need to take NO as NO and move on without a question...a very hard thing to do, I know.
cognac Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Personally I don't see why you would be "the nice guy". I actually am bored of being "the *******" and actually have a lot of love and affection to give, but my biggest fear is that the women I have in my life will ignore me once I do. It's happened every time before that. What I do is I am an pillar of strength and confidence, but once in a while will leak out some of my sensitive side (such as my passion for the arts). Best bet is to get a wife in another, less developed country where women are traditional. It's impossible to find a stable, loving partner you can be yourself with in the USA, women all think life is a romantic comedy movie.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 Women who hang out with men who will obviously break their hearts are not very mature or intelligent. You wouldn't stick your hand on a hot burner right? No, because you know that it would hurt very badly and to put your hand on there knowing better, would make you seem like a dunce, yes? No matter how much you like(d) this woman, she would get on your nerves in the long run with such little brains running in action. ah, an intelligent answer. I love how many people here gravitate to personal attacks. The anger is just simmerly and about to boil over. Damn, slept 3 hours, my head hurts.
Roxanna Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Just because she agreed with you means she gave an intelligent answer? OK. Either way, what you should take away from this is to forget about that girl because she doesn't want you, whether it's because she's not attracted to you or because she has issues, who cares? End resutl is, she's not with you or interested in being with you.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 Just because she agreed with you means she gave an intelligent answer? OK. She agreed with me? Nah, I just find the people that came out with personal attacks, and implied or said I was shallow, are shallow and hyporitical themselves. There's a lot of angry people, who "react" to others on this forum, and it's funny to watch them blow up immediately.
Roxanna Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 She agreed with me? Nah, I just find the people that came out with personal attacks, and implied or said I was shallow, are shallow and hyporitical themselves. There's a lot of angry people, who "react" to others on this forum, and it's funny to watch them blow up immediately. Unfortunately, that's probably an issue when you've been on the site awhile and people know who you are - they begin to have certain expectations, they have judgments, etc. They've decided that they like you or they don't in many cases. I also think that what people write is open to interpretation in regards to tone. Just because someone's wording isn't "nice" or "sensitive" enough doesn't mean they're trying to attack you. Some people are just very direct. And yes, she agreed with you, in regards to there being something wrong with some women (or something like that) who have emotional issues, and maybe it's not necessarily simply about not being interested in someone for a straightforward reason. Doesn't change the fact that they're not interested, is my point, and ps I don't see the good in attacking people on this board (or elsewhere). It's not going to make you any friends or help you get unbiased answers.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 I also think that what people write is open to interpretation in regards to tone. Just because someone's wording isn't "nice" or "sensitive" enough doesn't mean they're trying to attack you. Some people are just very direct. Or they (some people) could just be making personal attacks. Hypocrisy at it's best.
Trialbyfire Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Okay, let's pretend that there's something wrong with her. What does this say about you, that you're interested in someone with issues? I dunno Hkizzle. If I were you, I would simplify all the rationalizations to the one, most on this thread have come to and that's SJNTIY. I don't think it's more complex than that.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 Okay, let's pretend that there's something wrong with her. What does this say about you, that you're interested in someone with issues? I dunno Hkizzle. If I were you, I would simplify all the rationalizations to the one, most on this thread have come to and that's SJNTIY. I don't think it's more complex than that. TBF, I wasn't going on about the actual answer. Do you really think I need relationship advice at 4am? I was going on about the people that think I am shallow, and thus make hypocritical shallow attacks. They're not as nice as they really think. That was my point, that's all. In fact even though I was drunk when I started the thread, I knew exactly which hypocrites would post on this thread, lol.
sally4sara Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Sooooo, you like a girl and the best way you can come up with to show her how you feel is to dance with girls you think look better in front of her? And you think she blew you off all because she has an uninvolved father?!? I still don't know why you think you should be writing a book to help anyone when you're so effectively blocking your own cock.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 I still don't know why you think you should be writing a book to help anyone when you're so effectively blocking your own cock. hahaha:cool:
Art_Critic Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 HKizzle.. Hate is a pretty strong word.. Maybe she senses that hate side of you or the side that can hate and she isn't attracted to it at all.. I still don't know why you think you should be writing a book to help anyone when you're so effectively blocking your own cock. . owned...
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 HKizzle.. Hate is a pretty strong word.. Maybe she senses that hate side of you or the side that can hate and she isn't attracted to it at all.. . owned... .............I won't use such creative/provocative titles next time.
SadandConfusedWA Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 HKizzle, Remember the Occam's razor and then apply to rejection.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 1, 2009 Author Posted October 1, 2009 HKizzle, Remember the Occam's razor and then apply to rejection. I suddenly want to believe in God.
Rudderless Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Supposedly you're a former player. I don't believe it, you're coming across as a pretender. It's almost like with every post you write you try to convince yourself you know what you're doing. Admit it H, you WANT to be a player, it's what you aspire to. If you ever make that leap come back and let us know when you've had a crazy weekend, because right now your stories are pretty awful.
donnamaybe Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 I think the problem people have is your entire approach. "Well, she's not into me, therefore, there must be something wrong with her." It smacks of arrogance. Maybe she just isn't into you. Period.
loveslife Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Hkizzle seems to rub a lot of people here the wrong way. I mentioned that in one of the threads and he said he's testing the limits of how far he can push people. Maybe he's just playing with us?
Roxanna Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Hkizzle seems to rub a lot of people here the wrong way. I mentioned that in one of the threads and he said he's testing the limits of how far he can push people. Maybe he's just playing with us? I was wondering this also, because I remember reading a thread where someone commented something along the lines of HKizzle should try starting a thread of a real situation asking for advice instead of posting endless nonsense questions that he thinks he already knows the answer to. And notice this is pretty much the same kind of topic he usually talks about, except this time it's supposedly about him. Maybe your friend is just a better "playa" than you.
Rebellious Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 No, I am not a misogynist. I hate A woman, not women. I really like this girl, and I'm just curious why some girls will gravitate to men that will obviously break their hearts. Hell I even danced with her friend that's hotter than she is, and a couple of other girls but no, she doesn't give a ****. She goes and hangs out again with ANOTHER group of players. The only consolatio prize is I got a pic of me and Bob Sapp flexing our biceps on the dance floor because he's in HK for a fight. Bob Sapp is a friggin monster, I love him too (in another way). Anyway, what's wrong with some women, are they really that attracted to the confidence in guys that don't give a ****, or are they in reality just afraid of falling in love? There's nothing wrong with these women, they're just not into you cos you are a munchkin man. //
Trimmer Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Hkizzle seems to rub a lot of people here the wrong way. I mentioned that in one of the threads and he said he's testing the limits of how far he can push people. Maybe he's just playing with us? Or maybe he's realizing that we just aren't into him, but he's decided that's because there's something wrong with us.
Author Hkizzle Posted October 2, 2009 Author Posted October 2, 2009 Lol, I swear sharks, hyenas, and vultures tend to go a bit overboard and crazy when they smell blood.
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