gopher Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 I wanted to post this as an affirmation to all those men who love their women as they are, and to all those women who wonder if they'll find men that do. My girl is perfect for me, in spite of what the world may think... She has an hour glass figure with curves, and I find her sexy as hell. She happens to be working out with a trainer two times a week and works out 3 times a week on her own. She has a goal, she started this plan before she met me. If she does, or doesn't reach her goal, she will still be sexy to me. She tells me, that because I love her the way she is, that it gives her even more determination to reach her goals. She is the sweetest, most caring woman, I've ever met. I've never felt more loved in my life. Like me, she had a rough childhood, adopted and then orphaned at 16. She's had the drive and determination to be successful, inspite of having to drop out of high school. She finally got her GED, and plans to go to college. She's very intellegent and we have deep respectful conversations, even if we are at different ends of the political spectrum. For not having a higher education, she makes really good money, owns her own home and is amazingly financially responsible. No debt, huge savings and lives within her means. You wouldn't know it from meeting her, but she's unbelievebly passionate in the bedroom, and nothing is off limits, nothing except another person in our bed, and anal. Neither of which interest me. She loves me the way I am, thinks I'm incredible, just because I love her for who she is, and appreciate her. I cannot believe how lucky I am to have her. Whatever the world thinks, we believe God brought us together. We've talked about a future together, and having been through horrible relationships, know what we have together is special, and to be cherished.
Leia Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 This is the sweetest thread ever started by a man! I'm happy you found your woman, gopher. I have read your other posts and you seem genuinely happy and grateful for her.
Mixitup123 Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 That is soooo sweet. How long have you been together? It sounds like a fairly new relationship. Keep going like that please please please, don't lose sight of what you have just said about this fabulous women. Always refer back to your post. I love that it is beautiful and be proud of yourself..keep up the good work..and appreciate her every day, as only she deserves.
quankanne Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 *sigh* :love: I enjoy when guys post stuff like this – makes me believe they're not all machos who are too "tough" for love.
thegoodlife Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 :love::love::love: Thank you for this post, glad to see you found a woman you feel so passionately for!
Trialbyfire Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 I'm sincerely happy for you, gopher! Ain't love grand.
Author gopher Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 Thanks all...I really had no idea much I could love someone, or open up, and let them love me. It's the most amazing thing ever to happen to me. and Yes, TBF love is grand:love::love:
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