roxlovee Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Okay. I'm only 15, so i know this will sound pathetic to some of you wise and wonderful people. :/ But around june, I started speaking to this lad, whose in my school, but I never really spoke to him. But literally the second I did it was like 'POW'. |: I already liked him then, so you can imagine what it's like now! But like all relationships in not that easy. Its not like I can just 'go out with him'. :/ He has this ex, and i really don't know the details but they seem pretty close still. And she has a go at him for getting to close to me, and forbid him from even speaking to me! And I don't go to speak to him, because this girls not one i want to mess with. I really should of thought of this before I got so obsessed with him, but its to late for that now. I'm not saying I love him, because I most probably will learn in the future I don't, but I can't stop thinking about him! I thought he felt something for me too, but tbh i do not know what goes on in that boys head! He's all flirty with me on msn, blanks me in school, ignores me on msn, then randomly starts being all flirty again. And hes hinted loads that he likes me, and says 'aw i loveeyouu!' and crap like that. I just don't get it! The thing is, me and him can never happen, and i need to move on! Its not like no other boys are interested:/ I know i sound really bigheaded but im not bad looking, i'm one of the prettiest in my year apparantly (not my opinion! just what people say:L) I know that in a few months ill be over him, but for now its actual torture. He's all i think about, im getting distracted by it all in school, i get all happy when he speaks to me on msn. Im disgusted at myself for being like this !:L its just not me. AH i just need help. (;
hannie_1988 Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Well, you have to ask yourself these question: is this guy really worth to you? does he makes you happy? and so on.. It's only you who can figure out what you really want from him.. If he continues to treat you bad then you gotta confront him your feelings and what you don't like to be treated. if he apologise, then forgive him and be friends. Don't let him lead you on especially when he's control by his ex. Try and stay away so you don't end up hurting yourself. Find a better guy, there are so many fishes out there and you're young.. The way he talks to you on msn probably sounds like he's bored or just want to play mind games with you. Many guys are like that so you gotta be careful. Hope you'll feel better soon.
Not the love ace Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Its just young love for now. Don't stress it too much and just go with the flow while at the same time looking for other options. If you dig him its fine but don't allow yourself to be apart of his game. EASY does it.
whiteberry Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 I think you're too young to think such matter. JUst enjoy what you have now do not take it too serious..
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