lsb Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I just need to check in, sort of get a reality check. I dumped him like four months ago. And obviously he is entitled to move on and be with someone else. I get that. But I am hoping - only guessing - that this wave of slight pain and loneliness is normal. I have a hard time meeting people and feel very alone. Yet I still dumped him. I can't help it - it gets to me sometimes. I wish I had someone to talk to.
Maoky Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 It is normal. You're not alone I know a few situations from my friends too, where the dumper is hurting more than the dumpee. The pain will fade with time.
rp123 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I just need to check in, sort of get a reality check. I dumped him like four months ago. And obviously he is entitled to move on and be with someone else. I get that. But I am hoping - only guessing - that this wave of slight pain and loneliness is normal. I have a hard time meeting people and feel very alone. Yet I still dumped him. I can't help it - it gets to me sometimes. I wish I had someone to talk to. Did you make the right decision by dumping him?
anne1 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Hi, when you dumped him why did you do it, when did you realise it was a mistake or did you. Is it cos they have moved on and you are still alone or are you missing them? You being the dumper who is regreting it might give us all some insight
Author lsb Posted September 29, 2009 Author Posted September 29, 2009 He was clingy and rather possessive. It was getting to be too much and felt unhealthy that my life was him and only him. That is why I got out. I do think it is because he is finally moving on I feel this way.
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