matt155 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 ok this girl says shes into me. texts me nonstop totally acting like she wants to be my girlfriend. even asks me when im going to ask her out. she flaked out last weekend saying she was sick. NOW TODAY told me she was going to come down at 2 pm, ended up telling me at 9 pm she wasnt going to make it. What do you all make of this. Is she jerking my chain?
messiah Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Woman talk a lot of ****, men will never know what they want. They keep changing their minds from this to that. There is a girl in my class who chat to and flirt with she was always happy to chat with me and took interest in me by asking me personal questions. I ask for her number and her eyes lit up as if she won the lottery (well maybe thats exaggerated, but you know what i mean) she even said to me, "I been talking to my flat mate about how I should ask for your number without sounding so weird". She was happy to give her number (Im not being delusional, I know quite clearly when a girl is not interested at all). Anyway I ask her out on a date, and she tells me she has a bf! which is fine with me because at least now I know. Anyway she said she still wants us to be good mates and we should study together. A week later, I texted her asking her if she wants to go study and she still has not replied. Now tell me ladies, Why would a girl be so keen on giving her number to a guy and then not even have the decency to reply? I do not care if it is a yes or a no. It is just the act of not replying that really annoys me.
boogieboy Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Another guy grabbed her interest. You lost her.
prettybaby Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Another guy grabbed her interest. You lost her. There's really no way you'd know that. It could be anything. But in any case, it doesn't look good. Flaky people suck.
Bejita463 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 There's really no way you'd know that. It could be anything. But in any case, it doesn't look good. Flaky people suck. I assume he was referencing the surprise mention of the boyfriend with the comment you've quoted.
phineas Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Flakes abound it seems. I Got a 35 yr old one. flirted with me hard. I really wasn't looking for a GF right now i'm seperated & divorced (which she knew). She finally chases me down & asks for my number so she can text me. Tells me she'll call me. a few days later she does. Asks if I want to do something, she comes over & we hang out most of the day. Made me feel like I was on an interview. LOL! I tell her i'd like to see her again & she agrees. I tell her what days i'm free & she says she will call me & see what's going on. I don't hear from her, but she texts me at the end of the week to ask me what i'm doing, tell me she's going to the mall & says to have a good weekend. I told her thanks & that was it. Either she just isn't into me that much or she met someone else or she mentioned she hasn't had a relationship since she caught her fiancee cheating on her so she may be just screwed up a little still. who knows. Either way she knows i'm interested & has my number & i'm leaving it at that. I'm not going to chase a flake. I've got other women that actually call me when they say they will or are actually home when they say I can call them.
CaliGuy Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Actions > words. Ding ding ding! We have a winner. I stopped LISTENING to words and started paying attention to actions a long time ago. If someone says they are into you but don't follow it up with action, then they are not. Just like if someone SAYS they love you but their actions prove they do not, then really, which is true? Do they love you or not? My answer is no because if you truly love someone, you say it and you back it up with actions.
boogieboy Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 There's really no way you'd know that. It could be anything. But in any case, it doesn't look good. Flaky people suck.She blew him off twice, thats all to know. Whether or not it was another guy, theres a motto I live by. No matter how she bullshyts around it, If its not a "yes", its a "no".
messiah Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 If we were to use the theory; actions > words as a basis here, well then my experiences and some of the experiences of my friends would easily disprove it. I have had girls who I have dated, who was into me and even accepted to be exclusive when we had the talk. Then two or three weeks later, they do not want it anymore and they give the flakiest reasons. Therefore, why would a girl say things, back it up by actions and then suddenly change her mind? talk about being difficult.
Thaddeus Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Therefore, why would a girl say things, back it up by actions and then suddenly change her mind?Because they've been told since they were little girls that "it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind." Draw your own conclusions.
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