t0ri Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Basically, how do those of you in a relationship make plans to hang out with your SO? 1. Do one of you ASK if the other would like to hang out? 2. Is it assumed you'll hang out? Do you have certain days you see each other no matter what? 3. If you ask your SO to hang out and they say NO, not because they're busy or anything, they just don't want to, would that bother you?
Leia Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 1. Do one of you ASK if the other would like to hang out? YES 2. Is it assumed you'll hang out? Do you have certain days you see each other no matter what? No, we were both very flexible and spontaneous so nothing is fixed. 3. If you ask your SO to hang out and they say NO, not because they're busy or anything, they just don't want to, would that bother you? No, I have other things to do and people to hang out with. Too bad it ended a while ago
aerogurl87 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Basically, how do those of you in a relationship make plans to hang out with your SO? 1. Do one of you ASK if the other would like to hang out? 2. Is it assumed you'll hang out? Do you have certain days you see each other no matter what? 3. If you ask your SO to hang out and they say NO, not because they're busy or anything, they just don't want to, would that bother you? 1) Yeah, either he brings it up casually or I do. But usually he just says he misses me and asks me what days I got off for the week and we go from there. 2) It's assumed we'll see each other every weekend usually. 3) If I asked my BF to hang out and he just said no, then it would depend on the situation. If I had seen him all week, it wouldn't bother me. Now if I hadn't seen him all week and he said no, then yes I'd be kind of upset.
prettybaby Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 1. Do one of you ASK if the other would like to hang out? If it's outside our usual days, then yes, we ask each other. 2. Is it assumed you'll hang out? Do you have certain days you see each other no matter what? Yes, we see each other on the same days every week, because that's how our schedules work. If something comes up, we try to work around it and see each other anyway. 3. If you ask your SO to hang out and they say NO, not because they're busy or anything, they just don't want to, would that bother you? He's never told me he didn't feel like seeing me. If he did, I'd wonder what's wrong and I would probably feel weird. I can understand being busy or really tired, but not feeling like it? That can't be good.
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