UrKillinMeSmalls Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 So I decided to make a list of the girls I've dated since the end of highschool, some I don't consider exes but I'll call them all that to simplify things. I'm only going to use their first name initial to identify them, and list them earliest to most recent. I'll elaborate a bit on each one and give what I miss, what I don't miss, and maybe something else for spice- some are more detailed than others. I'll also put how long we were together at the end. The time in between each situation varies from 1 month to a full year. Anyway, here goes: --------------------------------------------- M - There's not a lot I miss about you. We were both pretty young. I liked that you were kind of clingy, it made me feel powerful and in control; and I like being in control. Other than that, not much else. (3 months) W - You were attractive, but partied too much for my taste. Plus you lived an hour away, that was a pain. (4 months) S - You were good to me, and tried to be a good girlfriend. But too many things turned me off about you. You weren't in college (no goals), you lied to me about small things, and you were crap in bed. (3 months) L - Ahh L, I loved you so much. You were beautiful, wholesome, the sex was great, I dug your personality, and it was evident how in love with me you were. But you had a habbit of laying your happiness on my shoulders, and when life threw you a curveball, you let it interfere with the relationship. We lived together and had great times, I would have been the father of your kids- when we split I was heartbroken. I know you regret letting me go, but I don't think you'll ever grow up. We probably weren't as good together as we thought we were. I miss you, but you weren't the girl for me after all. (8 months) C - Let's see C, you had a great rack, you were cute, and very creative with all your interior design stuff. You fell for me quick too. But between your love for Paris Hilton and all your gay guy friends, I knew it would be short lived. Our lifestyles were not on the same page at all. Hey, atleast the sex was good. (2 months) L - You were cute and fun. But our 4 year age difference turned out to be too big of a gap. Plus I wasn't THAT attracted to you. Why you still text me is beyond me. Oh well. (1 month) N - N, I can honestly say I probably screwed up when I let you go. You were cute, had a body that made me want to make babies, and were as much a nerd as me. You would have done anything for me. But you scared me when you wanted to make it official/exclusive after 2 months. I dug you enough to want that, but I've had my heart broken in the past, and you have to let me drop my guard before you make a move like that. I probably shouldn't have been scared away, because we would have made a great couple, but at the time I did what felt right. Maybe I'll see you again down the line, maybe not. (2 months) A - We just met in class this semester, but as soon as you looked at me I knew I was going to make you a part of my life, one way or another. It's only been about a week since I made my move, but I like where it's going, I like our convos, and I can tell you're into me. You're athletic, adorable, and have this innocent nervousness when you're around me that puts a huge smile on my face. So we'll see what happens. --------------------------------------------- Pretty basic, but maybe this will give the ladies SOME insight into how a guy (me anyway) might process, analyze and reflect on past relationships, as well as what he's thinking about recent/present ones. I tried to be as honest as possible, and wrote it in a way I'd say to their face if the chance ever came around. It also felt good to get it all out. I'm 24 btw, if that puts a perspective on things. Anyway, take from it what you can
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Kind of a random post, but interesting nonetheless. Thanks for sharing.
SummerLady Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 So I decided to make a list of the girls I've dated since the end of highschool, some I don't consider exes but I'll call them all that to simplify things. I'm only going to use their first name initial to identify them, and list them earliest to most recent. I'll elaborate a bit on each one and give what I miss, what I don't miss, and maybe something else for spice- some are more detailed than others. I'll also put how long we were together at the end. The time in between each situation varies from 1 month to a full year. Anyway, here goes: --------------------------------------------- M - There's not a lot I miss about you. We were both pretty young. I liked that you were kind of clingy, it made me feel powerful and in control; and I like being in control. Other than that, not much else. (3 months) W - You were attractive, but partied too much for my taste. Plus you lived an hour away, that was a pain. (4 months) S - You were good to me, and tried to be a good girlfriend. But too many things turned me off about you. You weren't in college (no goals), you lied to me about small things, and you were crap in bed. (3 months) L - Ahh L, I loved you so much. You were beautiful, wholesome, the sex was great, I dug your personality, and it was evident how in love with me you were. But you had a habbit of laying your happiness on my shoulders, and when life threw you a curveball, you let it interfere with the relationship. We lived together and had great times, I would have been the father of your kids- when we split I was heartbroken. I know you regret letting me go, but I don't think you'll ever grow up. We probably weren't as good together as we thought we were. I miss you, but you weren't the girl for me after all. (8 months) C - Let's see C, you had a great rack, you were cute, and very creative with all your interior design stuff. You fell for me quick too. But between your love for Paris Hilton and all your gay guy friends, I knew it would be short lived. Our lifestyles were not on the same page at all. Hey, atleast the sex was good. (2 months) L - You were cute and fun. But our 4 year age difference turned out to be too big of a gap. Plus I wasn't THAT attracted to you. Why you still text me is beyond me. Oh well. (1 month) N - N, I can honestly say I probably screwed up when I let you go. You were cute, had a body that made me want to make babies, and were as much a nerd as me. You would have done anything for me. But you scared me when you wanted to make it official/exclusive after 2 months. I dug you enough to want that, but I've had my heart broken in the past, and you have to let me drop my guard before you make a move like that. I probably shouldn't have been scared away, because we would have made a great couple, but at the time I did what felt right. Maybe I'll see you again down the line, maybe not. (2 months) A - We just met in class this semester, but as soon as you looked at me I knew I was going to make you a part of my life, one way or another. It's only been about a week since I made my move, but I like where it's going, I like our convos, and I can tell you're into me. You're athletic, adorable, and have this innocent nervousness when you're around me that puts a huge smile on my face. So we'll see what happens. --------------------------------------------- Pretty basic, but maybe this will give the ladies SOME insight into how a guy (me anyway) might process, analyze and reflect on past relationships, as well as what he's thinking about recent/present ones. I tried to be as honest as possible, and wrote it in a way I'd say to their face if the chance ever came around. It also felt good to get it all out. I'm 24 btw, if that puts a perspective on things. Anyway, take from it what you can I really enjoyed this as it demonstrates that eventhough certain relationships don't work out long term they have meaning and the meanings are various from person to person and by sometimes servere degrees. I appreciate this kind of dialogue with my boyfriend, we just talked the other day about exes and what we liked about them individually. When relationships end we sometimes forget what brought us together in the first place. They all have purpose if just for that time and place we are in. Thanks again:)
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