fatamus Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 This isn't a weird situation at all. It's commonplace, in fact. Girl is not getting enough love and affection from boy at home, so instead of buckling down and working on the relationship or having the strength to leave and be on her own, she seeks supplementary attention from an outside dude who will fill in the gaps, stringing him along with the hint of getting more from her. He hangs on until he finally wises up, and then she moves on to another guy. It's easy to say someone is perfect for you when she is out of reach, and it's easy for her to participate in this charade as well to get what she wants. If you were with her, you would see her weaknesses and foibles and realize that no one is perfect. She is somewhat sneaking around on her man, and she doesn't have the spine to do the right thing. She's not a catch. Definitely move on, immediately. And don't be surprised if her interest increases once you're unavailable. Keep her away. She's a waste of your time, no matter how this plays out. This man speaks the truth. You got a lower than dirt chick, you don't need that unless your a sucker. You will wise up, or maybe not.
fatamus Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Thanks for the advice Ruby, that's probably the right way to go about it. She recently told me she was going to invite me to her apartment when her boyfriend is not home to drink and watch a movie. I know i shouldn't do it, but I will anyway because i am an idiot. I have just never had the experience of liking a girl a lot and her liking me back. It's usually one way or another, while it's not the right thing to do , i'm going to play along with caution. I don't know when I will meet a girl like this one ever again and she pretty much begged me with her heart and soul into sticking around when I threatened to cut off contact with her , so I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts, que sera sera. and if he shows up, you make funeral arrangements in advance?
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