confused65 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I am in a relationship for 6 years, we have a young child and live together. we do not get along because of my older child, 18 years, as they hate each other. Do i try to save this relationship or get rid of him. i am afraid to get rid of him because he will talk bad to our young child about me, as he has done in the past. My oldest is fine when he is not around. It is just getting too ugly around here and i can't take it anymore. I don't want to kick out my oldest.
alphamale Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I am in a relationship for 6 years, we have a young child and live together. we do not get along because of my older child, 18 years, as they hate each other. Do i try to save this relationship or get rid of him. i am afraid to get rid of him because he will talk bad to our young child about me, as he has done in the past. My oldest is fine when he is not around. It is just getting too ugly around here and i can't take it anymore. I don't want to kick out my oldest. i would vote for getting rid of him...
ecm Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 he talks badly about you to your child? doesn't sound like much of a decision here...definitely do not choose him over your 18 year old. ?!?!?!?!?! I'm with alphamale...kick him out.
Author confused65 Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 i know, i am no stupid, i just need a lot of back up and confidence. If we break up again, OMG. i hate to go through that again, that i think is why i put it off and think it will get better, but i know it won't.
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