ooopnut4 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 So Im 24 now I dated this girl for about a month when I was 19..didn't work at the time for stupid reasons..anyways when I was about 21 I ended up moving into the house right next door and now we've become friends. And I'm really close with her twin sister now too. Getting to know her now has made me realize how perfect we are together and I was never gonna say anything cuz she's had a bf for like the last year and half. But Other night me, her, her sister and sis bf went out to club in city had a great time she was like watching me the whole night to see who I was talking too.The sisters bf who I'm real cool wit now was like it's always better when it's the four of us and that I should tell her I like her and that he knows she likes me too ANd she pretty much knows I like her. But shoul I tell her myself? Her boyfriend doesn't seem that great and is never out with us but I don't see her breaking up with him for any reason..should I wait it out or tell her how I really feel.?! Is it too late? Am I stuck as the best friend?
New Again Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Why do you think that "she pretty much knows you like her"? If she knows you like her and she has a bf, I'd say leave it alone. If she were interested, she wouldn't be with her bf. However, I am very strongly against interfering in other people's relationships; hence my belief that you should suck it up and stay quiet. I also believe in avoiding drama and messy situations, if at all possible. This is exactly what you'd be setting yourself up for by saying something to her. I think you should wait and see how things play out with her and her bf. If they break up, then you should think about making a move, assuming you're still interested and single. In the meantime, find a single, available girl to date
Dark-Farmer Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I disagree, if you really want it go for it. You can't always choose who you have feelings for. It sucks she has bf but what if shes the one. Don't purposely sabatoge their relationship, but there's nothing wrong with telling her how you feel if it's the truth. Some people will say she's already in a relationship blah blah blah. but the fact is if their relationship with her bf is strong she stay with him, end of story. And i'm going to go out on a limb and say that this girl probably told her twin how she felt who in turn told her bf who told you. I highly doubt he would recommend such a bold move if he was not told that indeed she did like you.
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