Sylky Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 My boyfriend broke up with me 10 days ago. He told me he wasn't sure about us and that it's the right decision for now. We'd been going out for a year and just came back from an overseas trip. I didn't see it coming, maybe I was oblivious to everything, however he said there were 'fundamental differences' in our relationship. Yes we were different people but I believe that people have to be different as you need a balance in the relationship. Anyway I couldn't just switch off, so I would text him and IM him to see how he was doing. On the weekend, I went over and saw him and we were together again, he told me 'that it wouldn't change anything'. I told him that I don't want to be with someone that's not 100% on me and I won't contact him anymore. He said that we'll catch up in the next few weeks. I know I need to move on from him now..
DustySaltus Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 My boyfriend broke up with me 10 days ago. He told me he wasn't sure about us and that it's the right decision for now. We'd been going out for a year and just came back from an overseas trip. I didn't see it coming, maybe I was oblivious to everything, however he said there were 'fundamental differences' in our relationship. Yes we were different people but I believe that people have to be different as you need a balance in the relationship. Anyway I couldn't just switch off, so I would text him and IM him to see how he was doing. On the weekend, I went over and saw him and we were together again, he told me 'that it wouldn't change anything'. I told him that I don't want to be with someone that's not 100% on me and I won't contact him anymore. He said that we'll catch up in the next few weeks. I know I need to move on from him now.. The best thing to do at this point would be to give him his space. I know it sucks but the only way to begin the healing process is to do what you are doing now, breaking contact with him.
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