Dexter Morgan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Women are attracted to these guys because they are CONFIDENT. They lead, they take control, they don't get all clingy and whiny about the girls they couldn't have. Bad boys don't require emotional maintenance. well then I guess they can quit complaining...eh? If you are going to be the whiny, clingy guy who complains about girls being attracted to the confidence of the bad boy, you will have a hard time getting play. got play dude. its awesome to reap the benefits of women finally deciding they have had enough of the bad boys, and now want a good guy. But i'm not going to be fooled by the ones I know were into the bad boys. I can now be selective and will make sure I'm not being settled for. I can get all bad boy, and I'm very confident. I'm just not a cheating ahole and have respect enough for women to not be a player. I just proceed with caution with any woman that had a thing for bad boys, i.e. bad boys that are players and cheaters. Instead you should be the fun and confident guy who makes life almost as exciting as the bad boy, but without the drama. funny, thats just how I described it above.
Author Lishy Posted September 30, 2009 Author Posted September 30, 2009 maybe you should make your own thread about players and bad boys? Totally off topic now
loveslife Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 maybe you should make your own thread about players and bad boys? Totally off topic now I agree. Lishy has been punished enough.
Phateless Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 well then I guess they can quit complaining...eh? 100% agree!! But I still believe that nobody deserves to be cheated on. got play dude. its awesome to reap the benefits of women finally deciding they have had enough of the bad boys, and now want a good guy. But i'm not going to be fooled by the ones I know were into the bad boys. I can now be selective and will make sure I'm not being settled for. I can get all bad boy, and I'm very confident. I'm just not a cheating ahole and have respect enough for women to not be a player. I just proceed with caution with any woman that had a thing for bad boys, i.e. bad boys that are players and cheaters. funny, thats just how I described it above. Agree again. I'm on the same track you are.
Dexter Morgan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 maybe you should make your own thread about players and bad boys? Totally off topic now so just what IS the topic? You made a booty call to a jerk, got laid, got him to cheat on someone he is seeing. You feel bad, you'll never ever take him back. So just what IS the point?
Dexter Morgan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 100% agree!! But I still believe that nobody deserves to be cheated on. then wouldn't you find it odd that someone that has been cheated on made a booty call into someone that was seeing someone else? i have been cheated on. I like sex just as much as the next guy, but I'm not going to get it from a woman that has a bf. because that bf doesn't deserve to be cheated on. if said woman is going to cheat on her bf, she can find some other jerk to be an accomplice to it.
Phateless Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 then wouldn't you find it odd that someone that has been cheated on made a booty call into someone that was seeing someone else? i have been cheated on. I like sex just as much as the next guy, but I'm not going to get it from a woman that has a bf. because that bf doesn't deserve to be cheated on. if said woman is going to cheat on her bf, she can find some other jerk to be an accomplice to it. I think you might be reading too much into this. She said she didn't know what dude's status is with this other girl. They don't keep in touch. It was just a booty call. I agree, if someone is in a committed relationship I would leave them alone, but if THEY step out, that's on them. The other party is in bad taste, but they're not to blame for someone else's cheating. Besides, if current gf knew dude cheated to be with her, she shouldn't be surprised when she gets cheated on. That is according to your own logic, which I agree with. I would not feel bad if my ex cheated on her current guy with me. She left me for him, so wtf does he expect? It's her that's to blame. I don't think Lishy did anything wrong here.
Author Lishy Posted September 30, 2009 Author Posted September 30, 2009 Dexter you are turning this about you being thrown over for bad boys and how hurt you are about it and what a great guy you are Seriously, make your own thread asking about the fairness of that I never called him a bad boy, I never said I wanted to steal him from a girl who is not even his girlfriend and who knows what he is like anyway You are turning this into something that its not
Dexter Morgan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Dexter you are turning this about you being thrown over for bad boys and how hurt you are about it and what a great guy you are when did I ever say I was thrown over for bad boys? i didn't, and I am not thrown over. I just get tired of hearing people knowingly walking into a viper pit, and then complain or are surprised they got bit. I never called him a bad boy didn't say you did. he cheated, treated you like crap....that makes him one.
Phateless Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Dexter you are turning this about you being thrown over for bad boys and how hurt you are about it and what a great guy you are Seriously, make your own thread asking about the fairness of that I never called him a bad boy, I never said I wanted to steal him from a girl who is not even his girlfriend and who knows what he is like anyway You are turning this into something that its not when did I ever say I was thrown over for bad boys? i didn't, and I am not thrown over. I just get tired of hearing people knowingly walking into a viper pit, and then complain or are surprised they got bit. didn't say you did. he cheated, treated you like crap....that makes him one. Dex, I agree, it's time to back off. You are disproportionately invested in this. Lishy, any other thoughts or feelings to get back on track?
Dexter Morgan Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Dex, I agree, it's time to back off. You are disproportionately invested in this. Lishy, any other thoughts or feelings to get back on track? yes, I'm done. I use to love Lishy's posts and respected her for her principles. she can no longer post the same things she has to other people that have been cheated on or criticize an OM/OW, and not be a hypocrite. over and out. and if you feel the need to respond, don't drag me back into it.
Star Gazer Posted September 30, 2009 Posted September 30, 2009 Dex, I agree, it's time to back off. You are disproportionately invested in this. No joke, man! Lishy, with time I think your feelings about this might change. You're a good person, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise.
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