logitech Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Hi all, I wanted to make a post of things I wrote after the break up that was some of my thoughts or letters etc. Feel free to post your own or give feed back for those that post Of course I will start Things I miss… The company The noise The hugs The kisses The milks The talk about fashion and things that I know nothing about The jumping for no reason The cooking The love The need to go to bed early The need to be home for you to be able to sleep The chance to protect you The chance to snuggle when it’s raining outside The joy of not always being serious The chance to say goodnight The chance to laugh at anything The chance to be heard laughing The chance to spend money on someone I love Things I want in a girl Someone who wants to jump at me when we haven’t seen each other in a while Someone who is happy to laugh with me and at me Someone who is willing to ask me for help or things they want Someone who is strong enough to tell me when I’ve done something they don’t like Someone who is willing to side with me even if I’m wrong Someone who wants to be close to me when we are out and about Someone who is willing to give me an affectionate whack Someone who is patient Someone who is kind Someone who is honest Someone who wants to include me/do things with me Finally a letter I was working on (that most likely will never be sent) You say that we have don’t have enough in common. So the fact that we both liked going to see the same music live, sitting together to watch our TV shows, going out to dinner, travelling the world to name a few things wasn’t enough to have in common?? How could I when you kept me at arms length from your world. Everything you are doing now you were able to do while you were with me. You didn’t want me to meet your friends. I only heard bad things from you about the people you hang around with now, how was I supposed to see them in a positive light?? I always felt like I had so much to prove to your parents. I spent so much effort trying to please your mum that I was losing touch with you along the way. I don’t understand. All the things you can do now you could do while you were with me. Now I feel as though you sabotaged things by not opening up to me. It’s like once you had some doubts, you didn’t want it to work out. We used to be so good at telling each other how we felt, what happened to make that stop?? Why did you always have to bottle things up until it was too late?! We’ve had so many good times together I just can’t fathom how it came to this. I can’t wait forever but I also can’t just let you go. I wanted to offer you the world.
UrKillinMeSmalls Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Indeed, don't ever send that to her.
mr heartbroken Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 You can never send that letter. Trust me you will only push her further away give her NC execpt the fact its over and try move on. it's not easy when you make someone your world and they toss you away i know. You know what it is you want and she wasnt these things. its not a good feeling what you are feeling stop thinking about what you miss and think about what you DONT MISS. I MISS THE COMPANY I MISS THE SMELL OF HER ON MY SKIN I MISS THE WAY SHE USED TO SMILE AT ME I MISS THE TASTE OF HER ON MY LIPS I MISS THE WAY SHE USED TO MAKE ME FEEL (AT TIMES) I MISS THE WAY SHE WOULD HOLD MY HAND I MISS THE WAY SHE WOULD FORGET TO SHAVE HER LEGS LOL I MISS THE WAS THAT WE WOULD HAVE A LAUGH IN BED I MISS THE WAY THAT WE WOULD JUST DOSS AROUND I MISS THE WAY THAT SHE CHEWED WITH HER MOUTH OPEN I MISS THE WAY SHE SAID I LOVE YOU I MISS THE WAY THAT SHE WOULD SIT IN MY CAR I MISS WATCHING HER GET READY I MISS THE WAY SHE ALWAYS ASKED IF SHE TURNED OF THE STRAIGHTNERS I MISS WALKING THE DOGS WITH HER I MISS THE WAY SHE USED TO SAY MY NAME I COULD GO ON WHAT I WANT FROM MY NEXT GF I WANT SOMEONE THAT CAN MAKE ME LAUGH I WANT SOMEONE TO BE THERE FOR ME I WANT SOMEONE THAT I CAN OPEN UP TO I WANT SOMEONE NOT TO JUDGE ME I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL SAY SOMETHING AND MEAN IT I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL TAKE PART IN SOME OF MY INTRESTS I WANT TO BE HAPPY AGAIN....
Author logitech Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Yeah I don't intend to send any of it. Mind you she is definitely throwing me the breadcrumbs like any good string along dumper would. She just SMS'd me this morning to say how awesome the Big Day Out concert line up is. I haven't replied, and don't intend to, which of course is eating me up. It makes me wonder if she has any idea that every bit of communication I get from her just eats me up. Trying to stay strong...
mr heartbroken Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Yeah I don't intend to send any of it. Mind you she is definitely throwing me the breadcrumbs like any good string along dumper would. She just SMS'd me this morning to say how awesome the Big Day Out concert line up is. I haven't replied, and don't intend to, which of course is eating me up. It makes me wonder if she has any idea that every bit of communication I get from her just eats me up. Trying to stay strong... Yeah i know what you mean. I hounded my ex to start with. Then out of nowhere she started sending a txt and phone calls. I really dont know what to say. You will ask yourself a million questions about why and what if. If you do txt back txt her knowing that you want nothing to come from. I would avoid sending a txt but its up to you.
Mixitup123 Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I think this is a good exercise to finding out exactly what you have lost and not lost. I was with my bf for over 4 years. I MISS:- I miss the company I miss his gorgeousness (well he was to me anyway) I miss his smooth skin I miss the talks and thought of us having a family (probably would not of happened though) I miss the thought of him being the father of my kids (dido above) I miss the I love you's I miss the snuggling up watching videos I miss his arms around me in bed I miss his arms and body I miss the silly little texts and phone calls I miss his families bbq's and get togethers I miss having him to talk about our future plans I miss the laughs (sometimes) I miss our drinking sessions I miss hanging out with him I miss just knowing he is mine I DON'T MISS:- To much to say and would probably be two A4 pages longer than the above I misses. So I won't bother. WHAT I WANT:- A nice guy A guy who actually can LOVE and feel LOVE A genuine guy A guy who follows through with actions and not only speaks the words A guy who wants to commit A guy who wants to settle down A guy who wants to have a family A guy who cares about me A guy who will put me before other people (who he has just met) A guy with a good outlook on life A guy who is realistic A guy who wouldn't treat me disrespectfully A guy who can realise what he has got in his partner a guy with some sort of plan for the future A guy who would actually, maybe consider listening to me A guy who will show me he loves me and will mean what he says and not lie Better stop now..sorry..hope I haven't scared the whole of the male race away.
11bgentleman Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I think this is a good exercise to finding out exactly what you have lost and not lost. I was with my bf for over 4 years. I MISS:- I miss the company I miss his gorgeousness (well he was to me anyway) I miss his smooth skin I miss the talks and thought of us having a family (probably would not of happened though) I miss the thought of him being the father of my kids (dido above) I miss the I love you's I miss the snuggling up watching videos I miss his arms around me in bed I miss his arms and body I miss the silly little texts and phone calls I miss his families bbq's and get togethers I miss having him to talk about our future plans I miss the laughs (sometimes) I miss our drinking sessions I miss hanging out with him I miss just knowing he is mine I DON'T MISS:- To much to say and would probably be two A4 pages longer than the above I misses. So I won't bother. WHAT I WANT:- A nice guy A guy who actually can LOVE and feel LOVE A genuine guy A guy who follows through with actions and not only speaks the words A guy who wants to commit A guy who wants to settle down A guy who wants to have a family A guy who cares about me A guy who will put me before other people (who he has just met) A guy with a good outlook on life A guy who is realistic A guy who wouldn't treat me disrespectfully A guy who can realise what he has got in his partner a guy with some sort of plan for the future A guy who would actually, maybe consider listening to me A guy who will show me he loves me and will mean what he says and not lie Better stop now..sorry..hope I haven't scared the whole of the male race away. You might have scared some. Any man that has been raised right should not have a problem with that.
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