slutacious Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 i am thinking about moving back home. Currently, i live with my boyfriend of 2 years, and quite frankly, i cant stand living with him. He has a bad attitude, gets mad and punches walls when i dont want to have sex, and has a weed problem i asked him to stop. He wont clean up after himself, and while he makes more than i do every pay period, i end up having to support him because he blows and goes. (we split all bills equally.) Is moving home the best idea? We are on a month by month lease.
Lauriebell82 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 i am thinking about moving back home. Currently, i live with my boyfriend of 2 years, and quite frankly, i cant stand living with him. He has a bad attitude, gets mad and punches walls when i dont want to have sex, and has a weed problem i asked him to stop. He wont clean up after himself, and while he makes more than i do every pay period, i end up having to support him because he blows and goes. (we split all bills equally.) is moving home the best idea? We are on a month by month lease. Yes!!!! Run!!!!
Author slutacious Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Just reading that as if someone else was posting it made me feel bad for myself. So, how do i approach the parentals about moving home?
ashleigh422 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 This sounds very familiar to me. PLEASE LEAVE. PLEASE LEAVE NOW. Don't look back.. It will never get easier. You money situation will never be better if you continue to be with him and he continues to support himself and not you. Trust me.. I know his type. His money is always his money for fun. Your money is for both of you and things you need like food, etc. His punching the wall is a warning. A VERY REAL WARNING. HUNNY.. TRUST ME. He will eventually take this warning further than the wall. . HE WILL hurt you.. or he will rape you.. Your situation touched me deeply and if I could have went back in time to the warnings.. I WOULD HAVE LEFT. Please do this for you. Keep us posted and keep yourself safe.
Lauriebell82 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Just reading that as if someone else was posting it made me feel bad for myself. So, how do i approach the parentals about moving home? Tell them you are unhappy with your boyfriend and do not want to continue with the relationship because he has issues. Will they want you to pay rent to live there? If you can afford it I would offer to pay them at least SOMETHING in order to compensate them.
ashleigh422 Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 You have to come clean. You have to trust yourself and tell them everything. If they knew half the stuff he did to you, or to himself, (such as weed) they would undoubtedly greet you with open arms.. I know they would rather have you come home then endure this any longer.. I did it. I came clean and told my parents everything. They accepted and SUPPORTED me in a way that no one else could. They have the role that they are on your side.
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