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Engagement Ring - Now what??


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Hi all,

 

I got the engagement ring back from my ex and intend to hang onto it for some time. I was just wondering what people's thoughts on it are such that:

 

Would you still sell it knowing you are going to make quite a loss on it??

 

Would you ever use the same ring twice in different people??

 

Would you just hold it indefinitely??

 

Any other thoughts??

 

 

I intend to hold it until I feel comfortable with whatever decision I make.

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I would sell it just to get it out of my life, but that's just me.

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Hi all,

 

I got the engagement ring back from my ex and intend to hang onto it for some time. I was just wondering what people's thoughts on it are such that:

 

Would you still sell it knowing you are going to make quite a loss on it??

 

Would you ever use the same ring twice in different people??

 

Would you just hold it indefinitely??

 

Any other thoughts??

 

 

I intend to hold it until I feel comfortable with whatever decision I make.

 

You know my situation already, but to answer your questions:

 

I bought my ring off a friend who would give me exactly what I paid for it back. With that being said, I probably would hold onto it for a while until I really processed everything.

 

No, I would take the money and save it for something else but i wouldn't use the same ring. Fresh start.

 

I have no idea how long I would hold to it because once it's gone it's gone. I guess it depends on your financial situation.

 

My EX refuses to give it back to me after all the vindictive stuff she did. Maybe one day it might show up in the mail but i doubt it.

 

The ring is a symbol, but a symbol is nothing without meaning. Put it in a safe place for now, there's no hurry..take your time.

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