Jar Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 OK, long story but it'll help set the scene. Basically I spent my summer working at a kids camp in America. Had a couple of moments with a couple of girls, all was casual so I never thought much more about them. Very late on in the summer I meet this other girl one night at the pub... and to be honest I kinda fell for her. Next morning we have that kinda awkward moment (but even that didn't feel that awkward really) and a few nights later we again hook up at the pub. Last day of camp she is leaving on the bus early morning (me and my friends are taking a limo in the afternoon, but that's a different story) and I get up early to say goodbye to her. We have a little kiss goodbye (awww) and she promises to facebook me (I made sure I added her before camp ended). Anyway, we go our seperate ways, she messages me the next day (which was a shock to me as I assumed she'd wait a few days) and for a couple of weeks we keep each other updated on our travels. Now we've both come home, and it turns out she lives like 2 hours away from me (mega bonus). So I'm talking to her on facebook and she just gives me her number (without me even asking for it). So now for the last couple of weeks we've been texting each other. Sounds good so far yeah? Well now it's come to the point were I want to meet up with her for a date... and I'm feeling nervous as hell about it. My mates seem to think I should go for it, and I don't mind at all driving 2 hours just to see her. But... I'm unsure how to go about it. I mean, I had no problem doing it in person at camp (and trust me, alchohol had nothing to do with it) but that's kinda out of the question now. I don't really want to facebook or text her asking her out (as I think that's kinda lame and I've never done it in the past), so I guess phoning her is the only option. But then I have these nagging doubts... what if she's just being friendly? I mean, I know she likes to tease and wind me up (she said as much in person and her texts suggest so) but what if things have changed in the two weeks since I last saw her. So yeah, I'm looking for some advice here (and a bit of reasurance to to be honest). Does it sound like I should ask to meet up? Am I onto a winner here? How should I go about asking her? Any comments would be sweet! (I just really like that smiley)
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