t0ri Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 It's been 5 months since my ex and I broke up for good. I'm having a bad day, and the only person I wish I could run to, to vent and make me feel better, is my ex. I really, really miss him...someone who could not care less about me. I don't necessarily want him back or anything, but I miss him very much as a person, as my friend, as my constant companion. What is even more bothersome to me, is that I'm still hurting over this breakup and I'm pretty sure he's been over it for quite a long time. Also, he does not miss me, I'm sure. He loves his life without me in it, and I wish we could have worked things out. I feel pathetic. Granted, I am in a much better place than I was two months ago. I've definitely let go of what happened, of any false hope, but I'm still sad. End of whiny rant.
GrayClouds Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 It's been 5 months since my ex and I broke up for good. I'm having a bad day, and the only person I wish I could run to, to vent and make me feel better, is my ex. I really, really miss him...someone who could not care less about me. I don't necessarily want him back or anything, but I miss him very much as a person, as my friend, as my constant companion. What is even more bothersome to me, is that I'm still hurting over this breakup and I'm pretty sure he's been over it for quite a long time. Also, he does not miss me, I'm sure. He loves his life without me in it, and I wish we could have worked things out. I feel pathetic. Granted, I am in a much better place than I was two months ago. I've definitely let go of what happened, of any false hope, but I'm still sad. End of whiny rant. Weekends are hard, so rant at will, get it out, and feel a little better.
Ronni_W Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Hugs. It does suck. I hope it'll get better for you...and soon!
JaggedRoad Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 You're not pathetic. Like you said, you just really miss him and that's normal. I miss my ex too and she treated me like crap the last few weeks. I constantly have an urge to contact her, but I know that it won't be worthwhile if she doesn't care. Again, you're not pathetic. You're just feeling separation anxiety.
Maxwell Sage Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 Oh, man. I'm in the exact same position. I'm a very private person and my ex has been my best, and pretty much my only close friend for the last three years. She broke up with me in July and found a new partner in August... Since then, I've been feeling extremely isolated since it's not healthy to talk to her any more... Like yourself, I'm doing far better than I was when I initially received the news, but I'm still feeling very lonely and pessimistic. All that's helped so far has been talking on this forum as well as with others who've gone through similar experiences. In fact, what's been helping most lately has been talking via aim with someone I met through here. We keep each other company, provide distraction, share coping mechanisms and give each other advice. If you'd like to chat some time, feel free to IM me on "Maxwell Sage". I really hope you feel better...
Leia Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 It's ok. We are all pathetic at some point in our lives. Stay strong.
Exit Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I'm almost at 6 months now and I know how you feel. My ex is so moved on and it's sad that it took me so long to realize it. New career, new car, new boyfriend, she has no reason to ever think about me. Meanwhile I'm stalled out, not really making progress with my life. I know the feeling when you have a bad day about something completely unrelated to your relationship, it still makes you miss that person. But somewhere out there is somebody who will want to be there for you whenever you need company, you'll find them eventually.
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