chslt77 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 So my ex and I broke up almost 3 months ago. For those 3 months it was rough for me, I tried all the things I wasnt supposed to and of course they accomplished nothing. So about a month ago we hung out one night with some friends and she asked me where I saw tonight ending up, I told her at my place, and to my surprise she said ok. So for that weekend she stayed over a few nights but we didnt kiss or anything. So a week goes by and we still talk everyday and hang out sometimes and I tell her I want to talk. I ask her whats going on between us what does she want from me. She says she just wants to be single and that she was just doing what was comfortable to her. Needless to say I felt like hell again so I swore to myself that I wouldnt talk to her anymore. So fast forward another week. She writes something on my facebook and i text her back. We end up hanging out that night again. A few days later we have sex and all that stuff. Well all that happened 3-4 weeks ago and she has stayed over every night since then. We kiss when we leave each other she calls me honey and babe but I dont call her any of those pet names.. yet. Anyways I tried to keep it short and simple but based on that what would you call us? I want to confront her again and ask her but based on what happened the last time I did that I refuse to say anything again. Im leaving it up to her but I just dont think shell ever say anything. If you have any ideas or opinions let me know.
mimiminx Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 If you are confused as to the status of you guys, you need to ask her AGAIN. You must stop sleeping with her too until she commits to being in the relationship if that's what she wants.. otherwise, she's using you for sex and wants to be "single". Honestly, if someone I broke up with came back for sex, and that's about it, I'd lose respect for them. And if I slept with someone who broke my heart and had no intention of being fully committed to me, I would sure as hell think he'd lose respect for me. There is not respect between you two if you're giving her what she wants but she isn't giving you what you want. Stay out of the bedroom in the meantime, PLEASE.
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