JimmyB26 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Since my divorce almost six months ago (and the end of the relationship with former student while I was separated - the one I wanted back), I've been actively pursuing the dating scene. But I've gotten so jaded by it that the two third dates I had this weekend, with two different women who were each really into me, were just boring and going-through-the-motions. I started to see what I must be like from the other side from my EX - always available, absolutely guaranteed, and generating no real interest on my part. Like being sold something I no longer want to buy. And I've got some real hot ones lined up, potentially for next week, but either way, the most AMAZING thing happened in the past couple of days. I'm a TA for a lecture/lab class at a midwestern urban university. While I instruct lab section in one room, an entire different course has a section of lab in the adjoining room. The other course has an insanely hot Latin undergrad, hotter than God, enrolled - and on Thursday, when our courses meet, I figured, what the hell? I started busting on her, since she's previously been really loud and outspoken, saying that I thought she'd been absent since I couldn't hear her voice. We exchange first names, and I tease her a couple more times, and then when my section is over I shut off the lights and just leave. By the time I get back to my office, a couple hours later, I've got a facebook invitation from her. Meaning she TRACKED DOWN MY LAST NAME. I accept, and then start teasing her for being a facebook stalker, that she's obsessive as well as loud, and she should focus more on her labwork and a little less on the cute TAs. Her response - "If this is what you want, I can give it to you." I tease her back about overusing pronouns and tell her to be more specific, so she responds with her phone number. Texting leads to her professing how much she wants me, yet me not really jumping at the bait and instead casually setting up drinks for this coming Tuesday - giving her a time and place, telling her not to be late. The most amazing part is that this girl is so much hotter than my EX that I now look at my EX asexually. I really don't have a reason to talk to my EX again or care whether she contacts me again, but like my friends have told me, and they've seen some of this Latina's modeling shots, once my EX finds out about this girl, her head is going to freakin explode. Absolutely amazing. Awesome. If nothing else had, this has reawoken my animalistic confidence that drew in my EX in the first place. I know I'm not supposed to care, but my mean streak wants me to be a fly in the room when my EX first sees my first pictures with this girl. Right now, I'm just leaning back, drawing the Latina in, making her mind race, letting her miss me a little bit and raise her anticipation for Tuesday. Life is just becoming so much fun, and a small part of my mind thinks that this situation might just lead to my EX now waiting around in case my relationship falls through. But this could be so much of a better thing than I ever had. We will see what happens. I've got to end this, so that I can damper down my enthusiasm about Tuesday and be prepared to handle things like a man.
Dream Brother Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Sounds slutty. lol! Just over the 10 chraracters but to the point.
Beeotch Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Whatever is going on sounds ridiculous to be honest.... The fact that you are even thinking about how your ex will react to this "Latina"....shows u are not over her and I am sorry for that girl if you're only going to be using her for thrills and to make ur ex head explode or whatever u said. Also the fact that you don't even refer to her as a girl/woman or any of her qualities but objectify her by referring to her as this Latina is also cause for me to shake my head at where your mind is at... Anyway I am no fortune teller.....but I can see how this little affair will turn sour before you know it. Sorry. If it works out great for you and her then that's lovely but somehow I can see this being a disaster sooner or later.
Angel1111 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Not to deflate your ego or anything (which probably isn't possible) but I seriously doubt that your ex will really care who you're dating. Especially this particular person you're describing. And for someone who no longer cares about their ex, you sure have created a lot of scenarios in your head about what she might think and do. Have fun with the Latin chick who is throwing herself at you. I give it about a week before you get sick of that crap. Another month before you're so sick of it that you'll even give up the sex. Another two months to get rid of her because she won't take rejection well at all. But, yeah, you can bank on your ex being so impressed with this that she'll be there waiting around with her tongue hanging out.
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 I still don't get why guys expound upon their potential, pending, supposed conquests...
Patrice Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Time to grow up man .. really, since you're obsessing over pictures to piss off you ex - you're not OVER her ... catch the drift??
alexxx Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 After losing every hope of reconciliation with his ex, he is now trying to hurt her. Eww... Deja vu.
Author JimmyB26 Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Everybody on here sounds so holier than thou...and BITTER AS HELL! It's overcompensation for all the hurt your exes have put you through. Maybe I'm not completely over mine, but I'm not perfect, and I have no problem admitting it. I'm done with this forum, because you all seem so angry and sad, and are trying with all your might to avoid your baser, primal, human instincts. Sounds like a sad way to go through life, and not one that's worth it to me. Good luck to you all, but I've wasted enough time on here already!
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