RachLIVE Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Im so confused!..& I hate the person who invented phones! > Long story short, he dumps me VERY suddenly & out of nowhere. 8 months of silence (I asked for the space). August - we begin talking, friendship builds slowly, good times. He leaves for uni. 2 weeks into uni ..2am, classic drunk texts with "love you" blahblah & he also said he wish he'd never ended it, etc. - im sure youve heard the type before. Im just confused now, feeling too much at once & i think i might actually explode. I just want to move on but I dont, i dont want him, but i do, I dont even want anyone atm but I can get this basta** out my head! I just wanna be happy now, think the longest i happy for was about 10 days, bliss. Im also angry at myself because its been 9 months why aren't I happy? I have great friends, good family & generally a goodlife, i feel selfish for being sad! Ill stop here or ill type forever, not sure what replies I want just felt like a rant. If you can relate in any way lemme know what your feeling or felt & how it all turned out.
Author RachLIVE Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 I also feel stupid because we were only together a year, that doesnt seem long enough to feel like this. Also I wanna talk to him about this, but dont think I should? We do chit chat often but never anything serious. Sorry lol im still typing..Kept alot in which probs wasnt a good idea, but ill live.
Exit Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Well right now the only thing you're getting from him is drunk texts which probably doesn't mean much. If I were you, I would just be honest, I would tell him you're still not completely sure how you feel about the breakup, and when he texts you stuff like that it really messed with your head. Ask him what's going on. Tell him that type of texting needs to stop if it doesn't mean anything. If he gets upset and doesn't talk to you, who cares. The only thing you have to lose is this person who is causing you pain. That's just me, literally what I would do if I were in your shoes.
Author RachLIVE Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 When he sent me it I told him he was being a **** & he shouldnt have said that & did get a text the next day saying "sorry for being a complete tool last night but i dont regret what i said" Thanks for the reply if he does send me anything again im gonna tell him to stop. Im too stubborn to give second chances (I think..) so I suppose I should just sever all ties rather than drag it on =/
Author RachLIVE Posted September 29, 2009 Author Posted September 29, 2009 He texted again & i totally called him on it, I told him to have the balls to say it sober or just stop all toegther, havent heard back since, it felt awesome saying it
mickleb Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 He texted again & i totally called him on it, I told him to have the balls to say it sober or just stop all toegther, havent heard back since, it felt awesome saying it I like this. Good call, Rach. Sometimes them springing up like this and being a tit is all you need to finally get your closure. It irritates the hell out of me that he had to go away to uni to tell you how much he cares. Some people just can't cope with any reality. If he really loved you, he would get on a train and knock on your door and sit on your step until you got back home and sheepishly, ask if he could come in. And then HAVE to tell you. You've held out for more for a long time. NO reason to drop that sensible idea now. Take care. x
boogieboy Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 Yeah you are hanging on to this connection, its going to make you feel like crap if you keep waiting for him to want to be with you. He dumped you for his own reasons, its not going to happen again. Stop replying to his texts. You crave companionship, so close the door on this guy and go get one that will make you forget about him.
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