anj Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Me and my ex (it doesn't even feel right using this term) broke up about 11 days ago. To keep a long story short, we both never were very good with communicating with each other and we drifted apart. I would fall in and out of love with him over the course of this past year (been together for 2 years, 9 months). We still love each other, but we aren't in love with each other. He had been distancing himself even more from me the couple weeks prior to breaking up. He talked about wanting to break up a almost two weeks before it was official. He didn't he didnt' feel the same way that he used to and in that time i told him i felt the same way, but that i think we needed to work on our relationship and communicate better to each other. He agreed but of course that didn't last. I agreed with the break up even though thats not what I wanted. I felt actually a little relieved when we broke up because I have been struggling for a long time trying to figure out what was wrong with our relationship. I finally got those answers, but now its not up to me to bring it back. I have been doing No Contact, even though its hard, I think it would be even harder if I tried to talk to him. I work for a cell phone company and he is under my account. The only text I received from him is asking how he can get it into his name. He was supposed to do that last Thursday, but he never did. I keep thinking that maybe he hasn't because maybe he's not sure that this really is what he wants to do. He hasn't called or anything to let me know why he hasn't or when he plans to try to again. I am probably just making something out of nothing though. Anyways, just thought I would share my story a bit. It kind of helps to deal with the pain and hearing about other people's stories.
GrayClouds Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 No matter how it goes down it sucks, Read both of these they will help: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance?
Author anj Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 yeah they really do help and they make sense. i still have an urge to call him to talk about the cell phone and maybe try to figure out how he's doing.
ebab83 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 I don't mean to sound pessimistic but you seem to be clinging on to such a small thing. Maybe he hasn't changed it as he has been busy? I just think it's best not to get your hopes up or read into things too much just yet.
Author anj Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 yeah i know that i am its just that i know him though and i know that he is the type that would have got something like that taken care as soon as possible.
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