ohwhyme Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Okay so i took her back after a year of pain... We met in england cause we were both going there anyway and we hit it off again. Then I spent the summer with her and it went by real quick even though we did fight sometimes, it did end pretty well and i saw her again a few weeks after that just for a week though. We're a long distance relationship so its gonna be hard the plan is to move over to America. So now we are a little rusty and shes very busy with work. So I've been giving her space and we haven't talked for like 4 days. She sends me smses asking if im alright or how i am? When we exchange a message she just stops writing. And on FB, I decided to deactivate my account as I've had a lot of work to do as well. The relationship status has changed to just in a relationship. Is that normal or did she change it by herself? When I checked her FB it didn't say anything at all. Should I ask her? Thanks for the help, I know I sound insane but I kept keep letting this crap happen to me over and over.
quarterlifecrisis Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 You need to be more secure man. Girls hate insecure guys. Once you show weakness, you are actually pushing them away. You need to be comfortable with your distance and not trip out. If you deactivated FB it should change her profile as well. If she's SMSing you, you should respond and tell her you are doing awesome. You should also take the initiative to reach out to her. Girls like strong men that own their own realities and can lead the relationship. Once you get needy and weak, they subconsciously find you less attractive and are easily swayed by more confident alpha males.
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