hannie_1988 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 I'm getting sick of this situation when I constantly get confused, being misunderstanding and worried where I'm going to stand. Why guys has to be so dramatic and complicated about themselves, it's so annoying. I cannot handle it anymore, my heart has been feeling quite barren lately. I've been friends with this guy for quite a while now, we seem to be pretty close and tell each other a lot of things. I feel comfortable around him, he makes me so satisfy, I enjoy his company and I have a faith that he's not a type of a guy who will end up fooling me around. However, he is quite confusing and misunderstanding at times. I've had confessed to him how I feel towards him so many times because I believe it's really worth it. Like when you like someone, you gotta admit your feelings no matter what or how many times because you are showing what you are feeling about the person. if the person is feeling the same or indecisive about you, always willing to give a shot or finding the way where you're going to stand. Well this guy is really wonderful, intelligent, easygoing, riotous and thoughtful. I really love talking to him and getting to know him better everyday. Whenever we talk less or more doesn't seem to change anything about us. When we hung out, we were pretty tight and close to each other like we were about to make out but I avoid it because I wasn't sure if it's a good idea. This is was the first time when we met, he seem to looked a bit confused why I wouldn't give him a kiss. So I took the gut to tell him what I have been thinking about us, we had a really good talk. And everything turns out to be unexpected what I was assuming about him. Last night, we hooked up because I thought this is what he really wants and had to let it go without worrying too much. I felt really happy and content. After few hours, it suddenly to go a bit weird. I don't know how to explain it.. Like he began to stop talking and getting ready to drop me home. To tell you the truth, I really don't like it when it happens. I mean how could you suddenly stop talking to someone after making out or something? :S. I feel like something is going wrong among us, like he was trying to lead me on or avoid to admit the truth how he feels about me? Then he sent me a message after he dropped home saying he felt bad about what happened and I did too. Maybe we were rushing into things but I can't help it because he's really attractive and I like him a lot. It's impossible for not allowing you to kiss someone you like? It's normal to show affection, I don't seem to find it wrong. :S Later on at night, we talked for a bit.. What I found out that he was a bit awkward to made out with me last night? I didn't mention about it why he was feeling and so on. I was surprised because I thought he would be comfortable and happy around me. But it wasn't, I wish I didn't have to kiss him. But why would he wants to kiss me and then feeling awkward after that?! I mean you gotta be sure to kiss someone if that what you really want? You can't let yourself to kiss someone because the person likes you! That's a dog act if it does happen! I'm not sure if it's true that he really likes me or maybe he wants to say it to make me feel happy or protecting me from getting hurt? I don't understand, really I don't. Should I walk away and forget about him? Or should I give it more time and to laid back? I need HELP! Please. I wanna get out of there and stop being so upset and confused! Thanks.
Eclypse Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I think he might be uncertain about his feelings. Not sure what he wants yet. Or he may just be one of those guys who enjoys the thrill of the chase. There's a lot of those around. Honestly though I can't quite get a read on this guy, and I'm a guy too. I'm curious to what other posters will think. Btw, your post was a little hard to understand at times.
Author hannie_1988 Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Yeah I don't understand him either. I mean every guys are different, sorry if i make it hard to elaborate. I'm not really good at explaining situations but I tried my best. Yeah I would be curious what other people would think too. Thanks for your advice.
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