ahsumgurl909 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 My Brother whom passed away wife moved in with a Guy & Girl whom my Brother was good friends with the guy for many years. So when my Brother passed he offered her a place. I will Call him S. & the Girl L. And My sis In-law J. Well anyhow strange things keep happening to J. since she moved in with these people. Like tonight J went out to her car drove to go get something at store. Came back parked in the back of the complex and when she went to go get cigarettes later there are plums smashed into her car all over it. J. has no enemies and would not hurt a fly. Also she came home the other day and here computer wouldnt boot up anymore. This girl L. that lives there is doing this to her because she can't do the things she use to since she moved in. For one thing this guy S. only has her there because she is extorting him with threats that if he ever kicked her out she will do harmful things to him. So he is afraid to even stick up for J. There is a lot more she has done but I dont want to make this to long. QUESTION? Is there anything this guy can do to get this girl out of his house? Can I do anything to help? I am afraid for J. because this girl does black magic and stuff and obviously the elevator doesnt reach the top floor. If you get my drift. What would you do in a situation like this if you were J. Or if you were me?
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Sorry to say but IMO J has, however innocently, become a nuisance to the resident female. While said female's mental state could be in question, there's no doubt she wants J out of their house and away from her man. How about if SIL comes to live with you until she gets back on her feet and recovers from her H's death? BTW, my condolences on your loss.
Author ahsumgurl909 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 L. isnt S's woman she is just there. don't work or help out with anything dont sleep with him just there. He is unhappy because he cant get rid of her. She basically goes through his belongings and throws out what she feels fit to throw out. Has many guys over while he is at work etc etc.
395x Posted October 4, 2009 Posted October 4, 2009 S is going to have to make a change in order for changes to happen. No one can make that choice him. The same goes for everyone in the house. But what L is doing, is eventually going to catch up to her. Until then she is going to keep doing what she wants.
Angel1111 Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 Yeah, it's pretty apparent that L isn't playing with a full deck but why is J putting herself in danger like that? Why stick around and try to figure it out, or wonder why S doesn't make L go away? Who cares? It's S's problem. J just needs to leave and find another place to live. Sorry to hear about your brother.
ecm Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 HI. First, I'm sorry about your loss. That sucks. Secondly, how far do you live? I saw another poster mentioned it, but is it possible for her to live with you? Thirdly, is L on the lease?
Author ahsumgurl909 Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 No I live with another family and its crowded and no she is not on the lease
Lucky_One Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 I would think that your SIL should just find somewhere else to live, and let this guy worry about his own roommate situation. I am sorry to hear about your brother.
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