DSM2709 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Well, I was chatting with this nice woman I met online for a week or two, and Friday night we met for the first time. I was somewhat nervous and didn't want to screw anything up, well so much for that. First off we decided to meet at Uno's, and when the time came, she called me and asked me where I was, and I said in the parking lot of what I believed to be "Unos", well I was actually in the "Applebees" parking lot, and Uno's was across the street, well she was cool about it, and met me there at Applebee's instead. Already I'm feeling like an idiot, because I didn't check where I was, and I was there before she was, so I had plenty of time to check, but I didn't...oh well. We actually joked about the whole thing afterwards. The dinner itself went fairly well, good conversation. I kept the focus on her and not so much on me. I was a gentleman too. We didn't get dessert because she said she was full. After dinner which we ended up spending about an hour and half at the restaraunt, and then that was it. I had no plan in action after dinner because I didn't know what was in the area, and it didn't seem like there was much anyways. So we talked a bit in the parking lot, and it was chilly, so it was a short conversation, I jokingly suggested we go back to my apt, to maybe watch a movie, she was laughing about it, but I knew she wouldn't go for it, no big deal. I gave her a couple of hugs, and asked her if she wanted to go out again, she said yes, and told her we can go by her plan next time...laughing as we agreed to it. I asked her to make sure she called me when she gets home to make sure she got home ok, to which she did. When she did call me back, I apologetically explained my screw up, and told her I had a great time and it was a pleasure meeting her to which she agreed, but she also said she was tired and had a long week, so it worked out that the date ended early. I then Said I would speak with her sometime next week, to which she said ok. Now, I'm wondering if she was just being nice to me by saying she would go out again, and making me feel at ease saying she was tired and I'll never hear from her again or am I just being paranoid? Also will she really call me back or does she think I'm a total dufus with no plan? She's very attractive and smart and I would like to redeem myself with her in getting another date. Thanks for your input.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Hard to say, dude. I didn't see anything that was a dealbreaker. I don't imagine she would have called to say she got home safe if she had no intention of talking to you again. But what do I know - I would never just pull a disappearing act on somebody if I gave them some hope I'd talk to them again. I've been away a bit - if I missed the post, I apologize - what happened to the other girl that you had several dates with and had gotten physical?
Author DSM2709 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Posted September 27, 2009 I'm still working that one too, and I'm taking her with me to NH. I'm keeping my options open....LOL!!!
boogieboy Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 Wait until she doesnt call you to worry about her blowing you off. Youre getting ahead of yourself.
Author DSM2709 Posted September 28, 2009 Author Posted September 28, 2009 Thanks guys, maybe I am being paranoid. I'll call her tomorrow.
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