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My wife and I had been married for four years and having a lot of problems. One day I came home and everything was gone(child and everything she wanted). She said she moved back in with her parents(I knew this was BS).

 

We were going to counseling, having lunch and everything else. I thought we were making progress and then!!!, I found out that she moved in with a family friend and she says he forced himself on her a couple times but, she stayed for 5 months, until I found out of course.

A lot of lying and deceit went on but, I was willing to work on trying to forget everything. Because I am no angel either but, I never cheated!

 

She moved back in until she got her own place (space)and once she did I stopped talking to her. She called me constantly for about two weeks! I finally broke down and answered. Well, she calls me first I don't call her unless it's about our daughter and we still talk/text 50 times a day but, she will not hang out with me.

She says that she does not like being dependent on me and she is lost without me. I know she is still attracted to me but, no sex.

 

My question is what is everyone's opinion on what is going on? Is she just keeping me around "just in case" or what? I can elaborate more. Thanks.

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Well forced himself? that sounds odd I mean isnt that assault? What did she do about it, do you know? Did she tell him to stop?

 

To me the fact that she gave up when you were trying sucks and sends a clear message she isnt that sincere.

 

She has been with you a long time and seems very confused but in my opinion confused people never become unconfused. She may think she wants you back now that your apart but once your back she will think that she wants out again. People show their true emotions after a while and I think she has shown hers. She was not willing to fight for your relationship when you are trying to work it. I hope things turn out though and always think of your daughter before anything else.

 

Good luck

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