Surfer Girl Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I just had to know.... as I know he has been going to therapy and wanting it to end with abusive ex.... I called a mutual friend... I know, not the best thing to do.... she told me therapy has worked for him and he has not been in contact for a year now.... The girl I thought was her was just a friend.... I thanked her as that is what I needed to know... It just somehow makes me feel better we did not break up because of her.... I had to know because she has contacted me numerous times.... and I was somewhat scared of her..... I feel somewhat better now.... It has been 2 months NC..... and I can honestly say.... I am relieved.... as my biggest worry was her trying to contact me again and possible hurt me verbally and physically.... No matter what happens.... I am in a better place now.... and he is too..... I am very thankful... he doesn't have to deal with her and I don't either.... from what I understand she is a crack whore now with a lesbian lover.... I am proud of him and proud of me..... I am still hurting and wanting him....but won't go there..... Even when I am not with him.... I wish I could say to him how much he has overcomed and I know how difficult it was....
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