meltonb33 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I have been dating a guy for almost 3 years now and i want more out of the relationship...meaning i want to get married or at least move in together. He tells me he is not ready...after 3 years shouldn't a person know if this is the one? I am really debating on if i should continue this relationship if is going nowhere...he is a wonderful man and i am scared i won't find someone who is as good to me and my daughter as he is...any advice???
Odyssey Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Why haven't you spoke to him about this? I mean even in casual conversation, how does he feel about marriage. Maybe he feels the same way.
alphamale Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I have been dating a guy for almost 3 years now and i want more out of the relationship...meaning i want to get married or at least move in together. He tells me he is not ready...after 3 years shouldn't a person know if this is the one? I am really debating on if i should continue this relationship if is going nowhere...he is a wonderful man and i am scared i won't find someone who is as good to me and my daughter as he is...any advice??? most people who end up getting married do so within a year or two of meeting. you're already past that threshold and the longer it goes the less likely you'll get married.
Roxanna Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 most people who end up getting married do so within a year or two of meeting. you're already past that threshold and the longer it goes the less likely you'll get married. Totally agree. You've already hit the relationship ceiling with this guy. And as much as I disagree with huge chunks/generalizations/etc. found in dating books, maybe you should read Why Men Marry Bitches.
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