hoping2heal Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 I want to thank you for posting that, I've came back twice already and re-read it.. Everytime I start feeling sad or whatever I'm going to read this. Thank ou so much for posting it, really. I know you may not be able to tell, but it is helping me alot You're welcome Lynx, and I'm glad it's helping. People like that need to be exposed for how they really are at the root of their charachter. I know people who are very SMART at this specific task (and make no question; she is) and very skilled manipulators. One of their favorite and easiest tricks is to whip out the old "tragic past" card. They continue to be con's, and master manipulators, they continue to use others and play others with that same tragic past card I mentioned, and they go through their lives like that never thinking they have to own up to their responsibility. Never thinking it's THEIR JOB to get help and STOP the behavior, just living life conning people and dying that way. As I said, the one's who really have it in them to stop do but those are VERY far and FEW between. That's not at all who she is as a person right now and it may never really be. That's no longer your burden okay? She is a big girl, she can make those decisions for herself. She doesn't need you protecting her from getting hurt, afterall it was YOU who was actually hurt, and injured, and ripped at your soul not her, right? She knows what she's doing and don't let her fool you differently.
Mixitup123 Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 I don't know what your relationship was like or anything about it. But I couldn't really understand or get what she was talking about half the time. NC though as she is obviously wanting to be alone. Unless it is just a disguise in the hope you contact her with hopes or getting back together!
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