KS882 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Right. I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. We do everything a couple does pretty much. I've spent most of my free time with him, we definately act like a couple when we're together. We've slept together. Things have felt as good as they can be to be honest. So last weekend we were walking and he said about us "going out" with eachother. Here "going out" usually means you're a "couple". Might just be a term that's used where I live. But anyway. I could have asked then what we are but didn't. So I was with him yesterday, not feeling well really, and he text earlier saying he enjoyed yesterday and hoped I was feeling well but it was really nice to see me. So I've taken it into my head to reply asking what we are because a friend asked (not strictly true). But yeah. Should have asked him face to face but wanted to know tonight and he's in work so can't ring. He's replied saying "what do you think? a couple? I don't mind what you want to call it". Me being me, quite negative usually (argh, shouldn't be!) read that the wrong way, I don't even know why! So I said "yeah, that sounded great!" and he's said "what did you think we were? I thought we were" and I said yeah, that's what I thought we were too. Sounds good. But I should have asked him face to face. But I've been ill today, in bed with too much time to think and wanted to be sure we're on the same page really. I needed to know because we have slept with eachother and I guess I should have asked before we did. But he thought we were already a couple so... was this just a silly question? Something that went without saying and there was no need for me to ask? Yeah, I'm pretty stupid with things like this really!
Author KS882 Posted September 26, 2009 Author Posted September 26, 2009 I'm 99.9% sure he wasn't. I've been with him almost the whole time he hasn't been working, I've spent a hell of a lot of time at his house and just even if I thought he was dating other people he wouldn't have had time really.
alphamale Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 ... was this just a silly question? basically? yes
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