Getting mixed signals

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Long story short, married to wife for 10 years, been together for 12 years, have two great children togwether. We have been separated for 6 months, in the beging it was easy for me, but roughly 2 months ago I had trouble coping with it, we separated for couple reasons, finanacially and becuase i was emotional abusive with my mouth becuase of it. I tried to reconcile about two months ago, but to no avail, she told me that she does not hav ethe same feelings, and we are not good together. I had a hard tme with this, but I moved on. Wiorked on myself to better myself, lost 25 lbs, bought some new cloths, and have been going to consuelor to help me with my verbal anger. I also went to metataion to help, I have have been doing great got out of my depression, and feeling good about myself, went on a couple of dates nothing serious just fun. Anyway, the other day i went with ex wife and kids apple picking, we do this annually, kids would not go with her unless I came, so I figured for the children i would do this, we had great time got along with ex , wonderful day>>when i dropped them off I gave her a light kiss on the cheek, and she turned in to give me a kiss as well, something she has not done for some time. Did not think much about it, anyway I went home and only one kid came with me becuase i get them on friday nights, the other one was not feeling well and wanted to stay with mom. Around 11:00 pm she calls me, but I did not have cell with me it was upstairs, I called back around midnight, and asked what she wanted, she asked if the youngest son was asleep, she said she was bored, and wanted to see if I would like to go over and watch a movie with her. I live at my floks house so, my parents are there. This seems like she wanted some quiet time with me, but am i just kidding myself. I have treated her with respect , and dignity for the last month and half. I had no contact with her for about three weeks after my try at reconcillation, and after I sent her an e-mail stating that I feel better, and would treat her with respect, and told her that I knew the breakup was for the best, and wished her hapiness in the future. Am i reading into this too much, becuase i have finaly got myself back emotioanlly, I just do not want to fall for a trap, and confuse what she is doing. what does everyone think, I do not want to put myself in position to be hurt again