letinmotion Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Never thought I'd be writing this post but here I am anyways. I've been dealing with a lot the past couple of weeks. My business has taken a bit of a hit, I just moved into a new place after a big dispute with my landlord and my mother informed me that she needs a blood transfusion. I still keep a pretty good head and outlook but something has been off with me and I just came to realize it. I haven't been myself--I've been stressed to the max. I got extremely irritated with something that the girl I was seeing did. It involved something along the lines of being blown off but it was a misunderstanding on my part. I called her out on in and even worse, I called her out on her birthday. It was so unlike me to get such a short fuse and I was a bit embarrassed. I apologized and wished her well but things we were weird after that and she seemed a bit dodgy. I ended up calling her out again and chastised her for thinking that she was playing games and told her I had about enough. To make a long story short, I blew it. Over reacted and made a complete ass of myself. She still talks to me, is flirtatious and she actually came over to hang with me and my guy friends last night but decided to leave because she didnt want to give me the wrong impression. I'm not too worried about lead on and not to worried about what shes even thinking. Things have a weird way of working out and I would think that we both had too great of chemistry to completely write the possibility of us off. I plan to see other people and see what happens but I don't really want to be put in the friend zone. I also haven't felt this way about anyone in a long while so I really dont want to write this off as no longer being a possibility. I just want things to shift in a new positive direction for us but still have doubts that I should just cut my losses and leave this girl alone. Would it be worth it to leave it alone for now and then try to resurrect things in a month or so if we are both not in a relationship? Any advice is welcome, I really need it. Its been a rough week.
carhill Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 IMO, you apologized and she's aware of your personal situation. Leave it be. Trust me, you aren't in her friendzone
Author letinmotion Posted September 26, 2009 Author Posted September 26, 2009 I hope so. I didn't really explain my personal situation as I didn't want to make excuses for my inconsiderate behavior. She left my place yesterday because she was worried she was giving me the wrong impression. She had told a friend of mine that I shouldn't like her. Of course what a woman says and does are to completely different things.
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