jaggy666 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I have been dating this girl for the last 3 weeks and everything has gone great! We clicked instantly and have a lot in common. Last night when i was at her place, we were cuddled up on the sofa kissing and so on but then she said we had to talk about something. She told me she really liked me and wanted to be with me but she's been hurt badly before and needs to know how i would treat and offer in a relationship. I thought that was a weird question to ask and i chickened out answering because i didnt know what to say! Were meeting on monday so how would you answer that question? Thanks.
ReturnToSender Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 I guess she wants reassurance, but unfortunately, thats something that can only come with time...with how you treat her and how she feels about and towards you. Trust and security is something that can only be built...words and promises have very little to do with it. I have to say, when I was younger...I had a similiar conversation, but if you had asked..well, what is it you want me to to to prove that? I wouldnt have had an answer, cause there is none. Id guess the best way to let her know your intentions are good...is say that you can only hope that through time, how you treat her and and see what you have to offer will prove itself, and ask for the chance and the time to do that.
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