Maoky Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Well it's my first thread about this, and I've been lurking around and reading other people's situations for a few weeks now, and yes I do realise my situation may not be as bad as most people's here, but I'm still hurting and would like any kind of comfort I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months ago, because I was occupying myself too much with other things (mostly exams), and she was getting bored of me and was lingering on whether to break up with me or not (I can understand why she dragged it out, my final exams were just around the corner). We were together about 7 months, spent pretty much every day at school together, and I saw this coming about 1-2 months before the official breakup, but when I tried communicating she shrugged it off as "everything's fine" or something along those lines. I know she was just trying not to hurt me, but don't I deserve some kind of honesty? (I'm graduating highschool and she's moving into year 11) I was on NC for about 3 weeks after the breakup, until I needed to contact her about some plans I was having with my friends (some mutual friends), and for the week after I contacted her, I guess she tried to be friendly with me, but I couldn't stand talking to her - it hurt so much - so I had to block her (I only deleted her beforehand, so I still had the hope that she would still be able to contact me). For 2 weeks now we've been on NC again, apart from walking past each other at school and pretending not to notice. I miss her so much, and I want to be able to say bye to her and her friends when I graduate next week, but I don't think I can. I want to just leave her be and let her move on (I knew she was interested in someone else before we broke up), and it hurts when you find out the person you fall for isn't the type of person you idealised in the first place. I seem to be involved with the 'cute' 'bubbly' types, and it pisses me off that I can't see past that kind of superficiality. Any help? Should I say bye to her? Right now I'm considering not to.
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