4givrnt4gtr Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 So i saw the thread about deleating pictures on social websites....I had yet to do that. Actually up until today I was still friends with the ex. I finally took the step and deleated him. So reading how deleating pictures is a must (and we had a ton) I went ahead and deleated them. And i felt SO immature. I hated doing it. I felt like it made it so obvious that I couldnt handle the break up. His ex before me left all the pictures of them together up and so did he...all of those are still out there for the world to see. when she did that i thought. A. Either she wants to have a presence in his life B. She truly could care less. i feel like having deleated him and the pictures really shows how bad it affected me. As i said before Ive been trying hard to pretend it didnt....now its obvious it did and I feel so embarrased. Especially cuz the pictures didnt bother me. I mean once in a while id look at them and think he's an idiot for letting us go, but other than that it didnt matter.... Again im embarrassed and i hope, pray i dont hear the "what happened!!!" ughhhhh Anyone felt immature doing the whole facebook pull out thing???
NopeNah Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 i feel like having deleated him and the pictures really shows how bad it affected me. As i said before Ive been trying hard to pretend it didnt....now its obvious it did and I feel so embarrased. Why try hard to pretend it it didn't affect you badly? It obviously did or you wouldn't be here. Also, who cares what he or others think about what you did? Your not here to impress them with your strength over a break up. We all handle things a bit different and this is the path you chose for yourself..in short..Fu*k'em and what they think!
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted September 26, 2009 Author Posted September 26, 2009 Why try hard to pretend it it didn't affect you badly? It obviously did or you wouldn't be here. Also, who cares what he or others think about what you did? Your not here to impress them with your strength over a break up. We all handle things a bit different and this is the path you chose for yourself..in short..Fu*k'em and what they think! I guess... im just so so so embarrased that he got to me like that. especially cuz before he left he kept saying he was worried he would hurt me once he was gone. He didnt want to make anyone sad. I told him i would be ok, that I didnt need his concern and much less his pity....
NopeNah Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 He's your ex so, don't worry about what he thinks. That whole "i don't want to make anyone sad" was said for himself, not you by the way.
BackonTrack2 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 you shouldn't feel to be bad, when my relationship ended, i told everyone, and everyone knew i was messed up, i yelled at the top of my lungs for anyone to listen and deleted all pictures, blocked her, unblocked her, even told friends to delete the pictures, the point being ofcourse it has affected you and who cares what your friends say or that you feel immature, we are all human + your friends weren't fawking him, you were..... PS, over 1.5 years later and NC during that entire time, I checked her profile and that whore has pictures of me on her Friends FaceBook. I wish so bad I could hack it and delete them and I want to contact her to tell her to have them removed but doing that will show emmotion + requires contact and well I am not going to do that....... The point is, your hurt, we are human, you are doing things to protect yourself..... Forget what people say or what it might look like....
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