fiser360 Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 For those of you that have read my other posts know that I have had a really rough time with this breakup. And for those of you that don't know...We were together for 3 years and have been broken up for a little over three months. I find myself getting worse, rather than better. I was doing great for a while, and now I just feel like everything is 10x worse. Whenever I see her..it's like mixed signals. Today I saw her and she came up to me crying about our boss being so insensitive about her being late because she had just gotten back from her boyfriends best friend's visitation. I felt awful that she was so upset and I couldn't do anything. I couldn't hold her and tell her everything was going to be okay. I couldn't wipe away her tears. Nothing at all. This really upset me that there was nothing I could do and seeing her like that. But to make matters worse, she comes up to me at the end of the night and apologizes for upsetting ME. I felt like such a selfish person, I didnt want her to feel like she had to do that at all. I would have much rather have suffered in silence. Does anyone know when this will get better? I still have hope! And some days I think it would be so much easier if I didn't. It would be nice to hear from you guys, and what you think or about your situations. It's easier to talk with people on here than your friends that aren't going through this kind of thing. Thank you so much everyone.
GrayClouds Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Good weeks, bad week, good days, bad days. I am currently lacking a bit of faith i the future. It has to be difficult to work with the EX. But it is completely unfair for her to use you for emotional support. Unless she wants the whole hook, line and sinker, she should not get any of it. Are you doing no contact?
Author fiser360 Posted September 26, 2009 Author Posted September 26, 2009 Im not exactly sure if I would call it "nc". But the only time I talk to her is if she talks to me at work, or if she texts me first. I never initiate the contact. Which I guess is kind of NC. The best I can do while working with her.
GrayClouds Posted September 26, 2009 Posted September 26, 2009 Im not exactly sure if I would call it "nc". But the only time I talk to her is if she talks to me at work, or if she texts me first. I never initiate the contact. Which I guess is kind of NC. The best I can do while working with her. Read: The No Contact Guide
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